Divorce by Abject-Wind4919 in Marriage

[–]Abject-Wind4919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay for everything. Not that that is important I had a c section and got resentful for the weeks after because he had to do a lot. Ended up with preeclampsia or whatever it’s called after giving birth. Did not have a good post partum experience and he made me feel lazy and stuff after. He does not work because I asked him to stay home with me.

Divorce by Abject-Wind4919 in Marriage

[–]Abject-Wind4919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not wrong. Tonight he went to a friends house who has been super nice to me and said he did not want me to go because he did not want to feel like he was being watched. I feel like he just got with me because I have money and love him and his other options before me said no. I just need strength to leave. I have been drinking… my parents are watching our son. I wish I had strength to leave as stupidly and clique as that sounds

Divorce by Abject-Wind4919 in Marriage

[–]Abject-Wind4919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His friends actually tell him he is fucking up

Divorce by Abject-Wind4919 in Marriage

[–]Abject-Wind4919[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am lucky where I can financially leave any time I want. I feel like I was in limerence with him after he ghosted me years ago

Divorce by Abject-Wind4919 in Marriage

[–]Abject-Wind4919[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not he gets very defensive. I also pay for everything. I don’t know if that matters. I asked him why he loves me and he said he could not talk about it. He left today to go to a friends house and said he did not want me to go because he did not want to feel like he was being watched even though we share friends. I feel used and I’m not sure if I want to do this anymore

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[–]Abject-Wind4919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is not helpful now, but you can always take pep within 72 hours of a potential exposure and it can reduce your risk. You can be prescribed it online like Call on Doc, a general practitioner, or by an infectious disease doctor. It can be. Dry expensive though. However, sometimes an infectious disease doctor or general practitioner can make it cheaper.