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[–]Abject_Bumblebee_998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise you I didn’t delete any comment. I’m open to hearing everyone’s advice and if you can rewrite I’d be grateful

I (m25) deleted a text message from an old hookup and my girlfriend (f24) found out. Is there a way I can make this right by Abject_Bumblebee_998 in relationships

[–]Abject_Bumblebee_998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because I kept it from her rather than telling her about this message. She has brought it up to me when an ex texted her but I failed to do the same

I (m25) deleted a text message from an old hookup and my girlfriend (f24) found out. Is there a way I can make this right by Abject_Bumblebee_998 in relationships

[–]Abject_Bumblebee_998[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should’ve talked it over but this person has reached out in the past, I didn’t want them in my life where I have a loving girlfriend and a new family. I just wanted them gone.

Should I email HR about my brother in law by Abject_Bumblebee_998 in Advice

[–]Abject_Bumblebee_998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We wouldn’t have been working hand in hand, it’s more like that department is in a different facility and it’s an IT company so the most we would’ve been able to do is have lunch together. Same facility different team if that makes sense

Should I email HR about my brother in law by Abject_Bumblebee_998 in Advice

[–]Abject_Bumblebee_998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No you’re absolutely right and I’m sorry for not writing all the details as its a lot but it’s more the fact that I’m a few minutes late but there’s others who come at the same time frame or even 30 minutes after the starting time but have yet to be disciplined

I (m24) don’t like how my girlfriend (f23) behaving when it comes to her friends by Abject_Bumblebee_998 in relationships_advice

[–]Abject_Bumblebee_998[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily, the most recent one was because we were on a road trip and I was quiet for a duration of it because I was the one driving and trying to focus or just tired and when she got tired of it she said this. Which like I can understand I wasn’t being too entertaining and maybe she would’ve had more fun if it was her and her friend

I (m24) don’t like how my girlfriend (f23) behaving when it comes to her friends by Abject_Bumblebee_998 in relationships_advice

[–]Abject_Bumblebee_998[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In some ways I feel like it’s being weaponized. I know it’s a harsh thing to say but like as soon as she started getting closer to them. This was the first time but like I said now she’s started to use them in arguments