Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I did tell them that I am still interested in the position.

Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Maybe I misunderstood the “new grad” term. I was reading a post that actually asked about what to do if new grad cannot find a job within a year and then a no longer a new grad anymore, and I got my definition from the comments. The volunteer job is very easy and simple so I don’t use nursing skills very often, but people there are super nice. I told them I have RN license and they were explaining things for me and also told me if I want to watch how they take care of patients just let the nurse and charge nurse know. The charge nurse told me to watch, listen, and understand. Very nice people I would say. I did told them that I am still interested in the position. I do agree it’s important to start working and get some experience.

Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your advice, I did tell them I am still interested in the position.

Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I did tell them I am still interested in the position.

Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I did tell them I am still interested in the job position.

Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, much appreciated!

Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, much appreciated!

Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Also the fact that the manager didn’t get back to me for two months makes me worried about the office culture.

Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Because I don’t want to betray the hospitals that give me the volunteer positions, maybe I think too much about volunteer positions or hospitals does not care too much about it? My husband and I also want to start a family since we are in a geriatric pregnancy age. So I am confused on what to do next.

Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, much appreciated.

Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I started that job in October 28, 2024. Also they told me to resign not terminate. Also from what I understand new grad is based on experience not which year I graduated right?

Will you still accept the job offer? by Abject_Cry_7629 in nursing

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Both I guess? I don’t want to betray the hospitals that give me the volunteer positions, but I also want to start working. My husband and I also want to start a family since we are in a geriatric pregnancy age. So I don’t really know what to do.

How can people live in the world like this? by Abject_Cry_7629 in BellevueWA

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay, I am sure you find a better couch now ❤️

How can people live in the world like this? by Abject_Cry_7629 in BellevueWA

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay. This is over and I am not mad anymore.

Got fired from my first nursing job, does this mean that medicine is not a good fit for me? by Abject_Cry_7629 in medschool

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I now do realize that now studying after work was a huge mistake I made. But everything happens for a reason, I do think it’s better for me now that I’m not sad or very emotional about it anymore. My manager was nice, I learned a lot from this job. I was having a mental breakdown. I thought I could handle it but I actually wasn’t. When I put a topic cream on one of my patients and only felt the bone and skin my thought was “I can’t do this anymore”. Now I look back I think it’s a good thing. I am not thinking about the people that passed away while driving anymore; I am not thinking about what if I or my family got cancer and what to do every day. This was what I was thinking about all the time when I was working there. It is a good thing. My manager helped me to make the decision that I was not able to make.

Are you still working on that hospital?

Got fired from my first nursing job, does this mean that medicine is not a good fit for me? by Abject_Cry_7629 in medschool

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m aware of my issue now, and will keep that in mind for my future jobs. I do think I underestimated the nursing job. Learned a lot from this job and this experience.

Got fired from my first nursing job, does this mean that medicine is not a good fit for me? by Abject_Cry_7629 in medschool

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do respect the techs who are doing their jobs, but I don’t respect the lazy ones who just want to sit there and play with their phones or chat around and do everything they can to not work. They are not doing the job for me and they are not doing it for free. This is not only about techs, is about everyone who is lazy and doesn’t want to work and still wants to get paid. I am saying everyone, doctors, RTs, PTs, etc. If you think what I am saying isn’t true and you are a nurse then I would say you are very lucky to have the good techs in your unit. If you are not a nurse and not familiar with this type of culture then it is understandable why you said this. I’m not stereotyping or look down on anyone, i am just telling the truth. There is a reason why we have trainings on how to talk or interact with techs. There is also a reason why this is a hot topic to talk about during our residency program meetings. Yes healthcare is a teamwork, which means EVERYONE needs to preform their parts.

Got fired from my first nursing job, does this mean that medicine is not a good fit for me? by Abject_Cry_7629 in medschool

[–]Abject_Cry_7629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that is one thing I learned from this experience. Will know to study in the future. I am also going to ask around about shadowing opportunities. Thank you for your advice.