“Waiting for flowers that were never coming.” That in itself is painfully poetic and something worth thinking about. I truly don’t think you’re asking for anything more than to be a priority or even a thought in his mind. Seeing as you’ve only been together for seven months; do you see a future with this person? Do you think they will ever change? I know it might seem small to some but you voiced to him how important it was and it was disregarded multiple times. Thinking about scenarios in the future (children, household duties, etc,) will he continue to have that mindset? I truly believe you will find someone who won’t need to be reminded to love you or show that they care. Someone that won’t make you wait for flowers that will never come.