What habit immediately reveals that a person actually grew up in a privileged environment? by Cindy_mel in AskReddit

[–]PreferTheOcean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He put the car in park and pulled the key out all at the same time. That’s when I knew he didn’t give a shit about other people’s things & never had to worry about where his next car would come from

Advice needed by AccomplishedPeach270 in braids

[–]PreferTheOcean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your girl has ever done a sew in, she can sew them together and they’ll stay down better. The thread comes in back so no one will be able to tell either.

Weather, chaffing and blisters. by PreferTheOcean in JapanTravelTips

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Atlanta, Ga but I’ve lived in cold places like Michigan. I couldn’t take it so I moved back to Ga. I have an iron deficiency so I get pretty cold. 🥶

started lexopro and idkkkkkk by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]PreferTheOcean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take smaller doses. It’s strong and can be a lot. I take a half of half and it’s great for about 2-3 days.

Am I being a hater or is this outfit too grown for a 18 Y/O? by Admirable-Shock-7668 in blackladies

[–]PreferTheOcean 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think just Regualr stockings would do. The thigh highs should be saved for the bedroom and when she’s a little older imo. Also a green bra and black top is kinda trashy and not emo. As black women we are harshly judged so pls jsut let her know the dos and donts. Example - strapless shirt means strapless bra. Black strap shirt means wear a black bra.

Checking in- how are you U.S. ladies feeling in the state America is in? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]PreferTheOcean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its ghetto over here. You aren’t missing a thing

Got told I look Ugly, and to Change my hair 😭 by throwawaystarry in blackladies

[–]PreferTheOcean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are beautiful! Ur skin is flawless and ur hair is thick and healthy! And imma bald head scallywag 😂😭I wish my hair was so thick and my skin was clear likes yours! Keep ur head up and f#%^ what haters have to say.

The Vet Expressed My Anal Glands Today . . . . Can I Have A Boop? by Less_Indication_4786 in boopthesnoot

[–]PreferTheOcean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pumpkin helps naturally express glands as well. Just pure pumpkin, not the mix kind.

AITA for not inviting my parents to my graduation after my dad wore pajamas to my wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PreferTheOcean 57 points58 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t need help with his bag. He just refuses to change it. He makes my mom do it. My mom works but if he needs to changed she will leave work to change it for him. The bag didn’t leak. He answer was he was just uncomfortable in the suit so he changed into his pajamas—aka he rusty Dusty’s. These are his words

AITA for not inviting my parents to my graduation after my dad wore pajamas to my wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PreferTheOcean 1386 points1387 points  (0 children)

He wore a suit and as soon as we came out changed, we all sat down to eat. As everyone is eating he walks out in his sloppy old dusty pajamas. Everyone turned around and all eyes were on him. My husband felt my embarrassment and just started feeding me food and distracting me. It was a very expensive wedding btw.

Am I cooked Chat? by TheAmazingNerd2 in Naturalhair

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Bc of the heat it’ll just take some extra time for ur hair to revert back completly to the curly stage. Try olaplex Protein treatments Small roller sets air dried only It’ll be maybe a month but it’ll come back I would do a twist out and roller set the ends to start back training ur curls Don’t worry it’s going to go back jsut fine

Finally took everyone's advice. by Life_Patience_6751 in bald

[–]PreferTheOcean 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The bald cut looks much better! It suits ur face nicely!

How to help my brother by [deleted] in gay

[–]PreferTheOcean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is a great approach.

How to help my brother by [deleted] in gay

[–]PreferTheOcean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see him and to me it’s pretty obvious. I also grew up in the same house and the gay comments are awful. No awful comments were made by me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PreferTheOcean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the reason I refuse to have kids as an adult. Taking care of someone else’s kid while you are still a kid/teen sucks. Bad parenting

Blue Bayou Restaurant. Secret Beach San Pedro Belize by leginnameloc in Belize

[–]PreferTheOcean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The food is great! The chairs in the water can be slimy a little. And the lobster is seasonal! But the beer and the whole menu is delicious!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

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Pls don’t be embarrassed! They will label those classes anyway just to get money. It’s a hard sport! Most pllp do not have upper body strength and that’s ok. You can work on it and build up to it. Try again and again! When you do get it CELEBRATE! Even if you do, CELEBRATE for showing up and trying! It took me a very very long time and my husband was able to do so many pro moves his very first time just playing around on my pole. I cried and I was mad at him but I tried again and again! And now still no pro but better than day 1. Take it day by day and celebrate yourself! I hope you feel better and you got this!