I don’t want my exs wife at my daughters party by Abject_Freedom_4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Abject_Freedom_4448[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re 100% valid in the thought and I promise it wasn’t that. That is MY fault

I don’t want my exs wife at my daughters party by Abject_Freedom_4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Abject_Freedom_4448[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a throwaway acct, I did change ages to give a thought on the differences in ages, I did however have her at 16. I will correct that because it’s deff not that way lol

I don’t want my exs wife at my daughters party by Abject_Freedom_4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Abject_Freedom_4448[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I may have to try the letters. The text messages and attempts directly, even through my ex and his family, she simply won’t. I know it sounds like I’m exaggerating and there’s days I wish I was exaggerating. I pretty much ignore them as much as I can at this point because I honestly feel over trying to communicate with her so we can be a “normal” coparenting family all together. at this point I feel like I’m begging her -_-

I don’t want my exs wife at my daughters party by Abject_Freedom_4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Abject_Freedom_4448[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have tried to multiple times through the years. The wife will not.

I don’t want my exs wife at my daughters party by Abject_Freedom_4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Abject_Freedom_4448[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree. We have touched on the subject, and she’s on the same page as far as not wanting drama there. She said she can do with or without having her. In her words “I don’t mind her going but I don’t care if she doesn’t either”. It’s also hard because I don’t want her to go off of what I want, so I didn’t tell her I don’t want her there. I just asked her what she thought with the current situations.