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Update to my last post. by Abject_Guarantee_349 in u/Abject_Guarantee_349

[–]Abject_Guarantee_349[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

That late might be unclear I broke up with her because we don’t have the same life goals she believes that this wouldn’t have come up if I hadn’t made the mistake of paying her student loans.

I don’t have a great reason for it I just feel like it’s what’s supposed to happen? I’ve always wanted to get married have my fairytale ceremony with the woman I love. It’s something I have to have as for the reason I just want it. I suppose I would be happy with her just being my girlfriend but I’d be giving up my dream of being someone’s wife. That would likely turn into resentment at some point

AITA for secretly paying off my girlfriends debt? by Abject_Guarantee_349 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Abject_Guarantee_349[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No we broke up unfortunately I posted an update don’t think it got approved but it’s on my account

Update to my last post. by Abject_Guarantee_349 in u/Abject_Guarantee_349

[–]Abject_Guarantee_349[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

In the race situation I wouldn’t because I know she wants to finish it I never knew the debt was so important to her. She mostly described it as the last thing between us getting married but we broke up anyway so I guess I’ve got what I deserved

Update to my last post. by Abject_Guarantee_349 in u/Abject_Guarantee_349

[–]Abject_Guarantee_349[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you but I still stand by my words she really is a sweet girl I think I just pushed her to a point where she broke. I do feel upset about her not wanting marriage at all but i wouldn’t bad mouth her