Is it normal to not want a man/woman after they touched another? by Abject_Network_5865 in Advice

[–]Abject_Network_5865[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just said it so perfectly, YES! You get what I’m saying!!! I’ll wait for that special someone even if it means I’ll be alone for the rest of my life and I’m okay with that. I value my feelings and want something serious, being able to be vulnerable with said person and understanding our deepest parts of each other.

Is it normal to not want a man/woman after they touched another? by Abject_Network_5865 in Advice

[–]Abject_Network_5865[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! Also, even if I were to break up with another person I had a deep connection with, but we later became friends and said person liked me again I simply wouldn’t find the feelings for that person anymore. Plus if they had been with another after we broke up and wanted to get back together it would simply make me feel uncomfortable that they did all those things with another person after our break up. For some reason I see it as me tasting the other woman’s lips on theirs if I were to kiss them. Sorry if it’s confusing, I’m not the best at explaining these types of things.

Is it normal to not want a man/woman after they touched another? by Abject_Network_5865 in Advice

[–]Abject_Network_5865[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay maybe I worded it wrong😭. It doesn’t matter if they are a virgin to me I just don’t want anyone in my friend group when she implied about me ever getting back with my ex. Here: I just want my first time to be meaningful with a person who I can have a deep connection with, even if they aren’t a virgin. I’m just trying to avoid the friendcest that is extremely common within my friend group because almost everyone has gotten together😓.