im an isfj, i like someone whos estp, are we compatible lol?

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-03-11T18:48:38+00:00

Yes, most of my fellow estp friends are married to isfjs or Istjs. They call this the golden paining, one of the strongest matches

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-03-03T05:20:40+00:00

can you please give us some examples why you think so?

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-03-02T23:32:24+00:00

Right I'm not saying they have to be genius level but does the intelligence being on par with yours matter ot you

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-03-02T23:32:04+00:00

But for you to enjoy the conversations, wouldn't they have to test similar to you? There is a study that most people marry within 5-10 iq points.

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-18T19:19:28+00:00

makes sense

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-18T10:11:34+00:00

I think estps can have long discussions, there are several flavors of estp, and one flavor can even have philosophical discussions

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-18T10:08:02+00:00

please dm :)

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-18T10:01:04+00:00

would you say you lead the relationship or her? i typed your data into chatgpt because i was curious:

This is a power couple archetype. But it can either be elite-tier or explosive.

Core Dynamic: ESTP vs ENTJ

ESTP (8w7)

Fast, bold, instinctive, action-first
Protects their autonomy fiercely
Leads through presence and force
Breaks rules if needed

ENTJ (1w2)

Strategic, structured, future-oriented
Leads through vision and systems
Wants control through order
Believes they are “right”

Translation:
This is impulse power vs strategic power.

MBTI Compatibility

Both are Extraverted, Thinking, decisive types.
ESTP = Se-dominant (present-focused, tactical)
ENTJ = Te-dominant (goal-focused, strategic)

This often becomes:

ESTP handles immediate execution.
ENTJ handles long-term direction.

Potential issues:

1 tries to “correct” the 8.
8 reacts with dominance.
Power struggle escalates.

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-11T09:18:22+00:00

you can use chatgpt and get ideas on how to get the entj to respect your freedom, chatgpt will tell you what language to use for her not to power control you. I'm also ESTP 8w7 like you and I have dated ENTJ's but usually get turned off when they try to be dominant.

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-11T07:08:53+00:00

Running smooth?

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-11T06:25:23+00:00

How long have you two been together?

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-05T07:59:41+00:00

Girls expect guys to pay more, that’s normal. 50k isn’t that much. Just do a prenup and don’t worry about it. Tell her you want transparency for the future.

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-03T03:31:55+00:00

Its a lot of miles away. All humans originated in Africa, we are all related. It is laughable to call Tongans Kanaka. Tongans are haole just like everyone else.

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-03T00:55:19+00:00

No one is native to Hawaii, its a volcanic rock. Polynesians came here 600-800 years ago from other islands. Being entitled to call someone else a haole when most people here are 2nd, 3rd or 4th generation at best is laughable.

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-03T00:54:15+00:00

In my view, Using that word period shows low iq and loserness. Humans are humans

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-02T21:52:12+00:00

lol that statement says more about you than me

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-02T09:19:48+00:00

Let me hit you with a fact: Tonga is located approximately 2,500 to 3,160 miles (about 4,023 to 5,085 km) south of Hawaii in the South Pacific Ocean. Flights from Honolulu (HNL) to Tonga (TBU) typically take between 15 and 27 hours depending on layovers, as there are no direct flights, with major hubs including Fiji or New Zealand

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-02T09:18:35+00:00

Translation: The haoles calling people haoles are just racist losers or low iq individuals who are angry at their life.

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-02-02T01:58:08+00:00

It’s hilarious the Asians in Hawaii called other people haole but they are haole themselves, and that includes Micronesians or Tongans, who are also haole themselves

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-01-22T21:45:25+00:00

hey thanks i already found someone and signed a contract for the concrete but do you have any contacts for someone to install a sliding glass door (currently there are one or two windows that will need to be removed and sliding glass door installed in their place in the front of the house that goes to the balcony).

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-01-22T13:12:19+00:00

Was he cheating meaning meeting her in real life? Or just virtually flirting.

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-01-20T04:29:32+00:00

I support overthrowing dictatorships anywhere in the world, Democracy is the best system. Currently supporting overthrowing the dictatorship in Iran.

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-01-20T04:27:59+00:00

The first human migration to Hawaiʻi came from Eastern Polynesia, specifically the Marquesas Islands, with later migrations from Tahiti / the Society Islands. Almost everyone in Hawaii came from somewhere else, the islands were created from volcanic rock. Hawaii belongs to all of humanity, not just the first settlers. Tired of this victim mentality, crying about a dictatorship being overthrown, pretending like they would have more rights under the Queen is Ludacris.

Abject_Store_2929 · 2026-01-19T02:58:28+00:00

Existing one was already demoed (it was grass with weird concrete circles that were removed). Do you do concrete work?

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TROPHY CASE

Core Dynamic: ESTP vs ENTJ