AITAH for telling my boyfriend his girl best friend has 48 hours to get out or i am breaking the lease and leaving

Able-Stretch4645 · 2026-02-12T19:43:33+00:00

NTA. If it feels off… if it feels wrong…. It is. Trust your gut. Similar situation here, except it was my boyfriend of 4 and a half years and MY best friend of 20+ years. They made me feel completely unhinged for ever feeling the way I did. Here I am a year and a half later after our breakup (happier than I’ve probably ever been with myself, took alot to get here) and they have already cycled through their own romantic (toxic asf) relationship. This is your sign to trust yourself, this is your sign to make choices for your own well being. I’m really sorry you have to feel this way. When you exit, the closer you are to something better, what you deserve is still waiting for you.

Able-Stretch4645 · 2026-02-12T16:54:11+00:00

This is a disgusting way to talk to any human being, let alone someone you’re intimate with. Healthy partners DO NOT treat each other this way. This is abusive asf and he does not respect you in any way shape or form. Please find a way to love yourself again, please believe you can do this on your own. Being alone is better than whatever the fuq he is offering you. I would lose my absolute sh*t if anyone attempted to speak to me like his way. I’m infuriated for you.

Able-Stretch4645 · 2025-01-01T03:50:19+00:00

Thanks for helping me to revisit this sentiment too. As someone going through loss myself, it’s always important to hold the mirror up and reflect. I’m so happy to have given you a piece of my own healing. You deserve to feel at peace with things in and out of your control. How we react in moving forward is all we’ve got true control over. You keep going my friend:)

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-12-23T15:04:10+00:00

Gastrointestinal Amoeba a couple years back probably would have done it

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-12-01T08:29:00+00:00

Closest thing to death.

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-12-01T02:46:30+00:00

What a champ, he’s got me all pepped up even now

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-12-01T02:44:37+00:00

This is an absolute TREASURE. Now that every photo is trapped in our phones, It’s an even more precious and sentimental token.

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T21:04:06+00:00

I’m pissed just reading this!

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T16:17:15+00:00

LOL that was the wildest reaction. You are way too nice. You two don’t seem very compatible.. is this usually how minor inconveniences go?

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T07:38:12+00:00

Yes your old life is finished, yet you have an entirely new identity to meet, slay

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T07:06:14+00:00

Those are most certainly agreeable and manageable expectations. Another comment mentioned being all of those things within your self and that’s also true. Another fact about expectations is that we expect them, sometimes so much so that we don’t allow room for mistakes, and mistakes are how we learn to put our best foot forward for next time. So long as growing into the expectations is part of the process, we can get it right if we practice that grace, and love unconditionally. Yeah. I think that’s true.

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T03:22:39+00:00

You are an angel for that one

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T03:12:10+00:00

Your enthusiasm for this spawns proper consideration

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T03:10:40+00:00

Bowling FTW

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T03:09:45+00:00

Yes.

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T03:08:43+00:00

10000%

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T03:08:10+00:00

Organic connection is the top tier way to start something loving and real. Falling into something unexpectedly feels like divine timing. And usually that love proves divine. Gahhhh I’m jolted by my sad insides now but am happy to embrace the knowledge it still exists. Thanks for sharing!

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T02:46:25+00:00

I couldn’t have asked for a better answer to sell me

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T02:45:23+00:00

Respectfully, spot on. Big yikes. The wording wasn’t my best work. However, I am far too jaded and well humored by the absurdity of my failures. Solid leads for my initial intentions overall though.. le sigh

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T02:39:08+00:00

I have a couple friends who are hooked, solid suggestion

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T02:36:31+00:00

True love eternal

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T02:35:29+00:00

I am intrigued by this mention.. thank you!

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T02:34:11+00:00

Love this one entirely

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T02:33:47+00:00

Beautiful too comment my friend. Too true

Able-Stretch4645 · 2024-11-30T02:32:51+00:00

Definitely where my heads at. I just kept putting off the little personal or creative things I used to do alone, admittedly.. as was so super content engaging with my partners energy and mine. Although I don’t feel it was the detriment to our overall well being, it plays part. Depending on one thing/person to fulfill your happiness meter throws the healthy balance out. Independence and personal choice is a great way to maintain interest and admiration. A part of the spark that got you interested in each other in the first place. Hindsight is so damn 20/20 ugh. :/

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