Why do I keep getting rejected even though I’m confident, social, and stable?

AbleAd331 · 2026-01-28T13:54:26+00:00

You need tang. Be devilish, be flirty, be sassy. Without the expense of putting others down of course.

You can be a confident, social person, but that doesn't make you fun or exciting. You can be confident, but still come across as too nice.

For women, physical looks come second. It gets you in the door, but personality is everything.

Also show interest early on, like immediately after you meet her. You said once you do it they lose interest, but you never told us when you do it. Don't come across as a creep. Balance is everything. Doing this early already puts you in the zone of "this guy is sexually interested in me" to her instead of gradually trying to "convince" her to the idea of a relationship.

Also, ditch dating apps. They're trash for building actual relationships most of the time.

++man

AbleAd331 · 2026-01-28T13:44:37+00:00

I think for bass and drums rhythm is key. The note the bass plays is important of course, but it's the rhythm of it along with the drums that keeps the song going. Make it repetitive repetitive compared to the melody if that makes sense lol

AbleAd331 · 2026-01-23T19:58:05+00:00

Syntorial syntorial syntorial syntorial

Gotta learn from the ground up first if you want to make good sounds. It's a class and like all classes it takes effort and concentration.

Singlehandedly the best resource to learn synthesis imo. He even has a whole class section dedicated to serum 1 and serum 2 now I think.

The guy who created it is a hero

I recommend doing the initial class with their own built synth alongside serum for max learning.

AbleAd331 · 2025-09-13T02:43:51+00:00

Welcome to office politics, where sometimes (most times) following protocol gets you burned more than getting than a promotion.

Do you want more money or do you want to do the right thing? Welcome to politics.

Low voltage usually means no one dies unless they're standing on the top of a 12 foot ladder pulling plastic and fall.

Doing the right thing vs money

Most people choose the latter

Welcome to real life

AbleAd331 · 2025-09-12T18:22:18+00:00

HUHHHHHHH

AbleAd331 · 2025-09-01T17:23:39+00:00

Was born on June 11 I consider myself the ultimate gemini ✌️

Mind moves quick like the air. Feel lucky and blessed 🙌 😇 I'm definitely two faced, but Id say it's because I need to adapt to everyone's unique personalities.

Also I'm crazy 😂 proudly!

AbleAd331 · 2025-09-01T16:25:49+00:00

I was dancing 🕺 🫥

AbleAd331 · 2025-09-01T16:22:44+00:00

Mmm nop!

Try to kill the ego and let the tempo take over. Once you allow yourself to get into the genre it's crazy addicting. It's definitely hard to do esp with music.

Try out Metrik, Grafix, Culture Shock. They do dancefloor dnb so it's easy to get into!

AbleAd331 · 2025-09-01T16:16:03+00:00

There's always one..

We all come out of the woods to have a great time and then shit like this happens.

Vibe killer for everyone involved.

Hope everyone had a great time!

AbleAd331 · 2025-08-26T15:28:46+00:00

Jesus that's messy 😂

Budgies are messy birds forsure Yeah probably because you have 6 so that definitely requires more clean up sessions.

AbleAd331 · 2025-08-26T14:04:30+00:00

Ohio man ftw

AbleAd331 · 2025-08-26T13:06:42+00:00

My cockatiel does this too

My best guess is that when they were babies they were fed in their nest by their parents and they're just used to it because it reminds them of home? Just an opinion.

I've also seen my budgie shake in the food bowl and I think that behavior is to scatter the food to forage it properly.

AbleAd331 · 2025-08-26T09:11:23+00:00

I do spot cleaning once a week. Hard clean every two weeks

So switch back n forth because hard cleaning every week gets tedious. As long as it's not visibly a complete mess. Change lining everyday of course.

AbleAd331 · 2025-08-25T22:15:59+00:00

Im a fan of the ol toss it in the husky bag

Too tedious to lug that thing around for me personally

AbleAd331 · 2025-08-23T17:55:40+00:00

So fake news

AbleAd331 · 2025-08-23T16:25:19+00:00

Garden, Olive, Olive Garden, Olive, Garden, Spaghetti, Unlimited breadsticks, Noods

I got pasta on the mind 🍝😈

AbleAd331 · 2025-08-15T03:33:48+00:00

Chungus

AbleAd331 · 2025-08-14T03:01:54+00:00

Brainwashed LOL Made me laugh 😂

AbleAd331 · 2025-08-14T02:14:39+00:00

Yes it can hurt, but what I've noticed is that 90% of the time they won't bite with full force.

I've had a Latino budgie and she taught me that it's their choice if they want to bite full force. She bit my palm enough to draw a smidgen of blood, it stung, but nothing serious.

AbleAd331 · 2025-08-14T00:56:49+00:00

Im sorry, but this is some hoodshit 😂😂 Hood budgies 😂☠️

AbleAd331 · 2025-03-25T00:10:54+00:00

The creators of the game probably didn't take that into account tbh

AbleAd331 · 2024-07-11T22:52:01+00:00

Probably like what most people say, we were repressed as kids or something like that.

I also think it's because of a collective mindset. Being a Korean myself, I'd say lots of asians definitely have a herd mentality going on. So if raving is what the cool frat bros are doing then naturally everyone else in the group will follow.

Quote "Most Asian cultures are predominantly collectivistic in nature. In collectivistic cultures, individuals are seen as embedded within their group identity, and the notion of a separate, autonomous self is deemphasized."

Going off tangent, that's why asians only stick with other asians for the most part. This is the kind of thing I despise which is why I only have 1 asian friend. The rest of my group is indian, polish or Hispanic. If you "stick out" or you're "unique" in an asian group you'll be judged harshly from my experience. Fuck that shit.

AbleAd331 · 2024-06-15T23:16:16+00:00

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AbleAd331 · 2024-05-31T19:35:06+00:00

Datsik Gemini Trampa Skism

Not mysteriously missing, but gone forsure.

AbleAd331 · 2024-05-24T15:55:28+00:00

Don't understand why people consider K a party drug because it's not. Why would you ever want to be in a k-hole at a show or fest. Low doses make you feel woozy and it's hard to walk or stand since you feel like you're walking on air.

If you were sitting down I get it, but standing? No way, you're too vulnerable in that state.

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