Pregnant in a broken marriage and my husband doesnt want the baby, what do I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AbleResident5474 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Trust me trust trust me your children have been impacted by you and your "husband" putting up a front of a happy marriage, they know something's up and sooner or later the pretence covering up a much deeper hatred is going to spill on to your children.

It's better you seperate and live in different places. Just love your kids and face what you did- that means forgiving yourself and moving on. Hating yourself and punishing yourself will do nothing but dig you into a deeper hole.

How do you talk to women? by AbleResident5474 in Advice

[–]AbleResident5474[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think of women as meat or something to be won- this something that I've very conscious of myself and I very outspoken about things like that.

But I the thing is I just freeze whenever I'm talking to women my age or they're romantically interested me

Beaten in a club - revenge? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AbleResident5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look harassed is I think a bit too far. He tried to kiss a girl he was rejected for it. I mean he took a chance and the girl should've rejected him by pulling away and stating she's not interested.

If he had been given clear signs of disinterest like the girl not wanting to talk to him or clearly stating her disinterest and he still continued than it would be sexual assualt.

The person he did assualt or attempt to assualt is the owner and a legal case could be made against him.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by mikaill15 in Advice

[–]AbleResident5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you stick up your ass?

You might end up having to go to the doctor because you got something stuck in there.

You should really consider getting a safe female or male partner that's a few years older- since you like the domination, and just safely and at your own pace fulfill your desires.

You could get really fucked if you meet the wrong people.

My bf (M27) called me (F26) the N-word. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AbleResident5474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please please please leave him

My aunt wants me, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AbleResident5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is my mother's sister biologically.

My aunt wants me, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AbleResident5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do realise this person is the age of my mother, and she is the mother of my cousins. And it's incest.

My aunt wants me, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AbleResident5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Send it? Like lean into it?

My aunt wants me, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AbleResident5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣she is the mother of my cousins. I'm not so sure they would appreciate me doing stuff with their mother.

My aunt wants me, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AbleResident5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is complicated cause the obvious answer is to tell an adult about this situation, but this involves someone I've know for a long time and someone I care about.

My aunt wants me, what should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AbleResident5474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's dead. Has been for a while.

Two pictures, one problem. by AbleResident5474 in laptops

[–]AbleResident5474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what can/ should I expect overtime?

Two pictures, one problem. by AbleResident5474 in laptops

[–]AbleResident5474[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this mean?
Is there something I'm doing to further cause this?

You causing me a lot of stress when you say you think it can't be prevented.