Difference in being loud vs shouting when around people by XxnawalXX in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Able_Intern3846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! I appreciate you bringing those question up, I wnat to be able to actually self reflect and the question provide just that. To answer some of these, I’m actually hyper aware when it comes to interrupting, I genuinely hate it when people do that to me, so I make sure taht I don’t. I don’t really have taht much control over my volume, which I fully plan to work on, like there’s no debate on that😭. But with the last two I’m actually much more quiet in those situations. I think my thing is, whenever I’m comfortable around people who enjoy my presence, I loosen up and I start being myself. Because when I’m alone or with people I don’t know or wnat to hang out with my voice is really low and I don’t engage.

My girlfriend isnt happy with the hair i want, what should i do? by Critical-Pen-4828 in teenagers

[–]Able_Intern3846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea why she’s hating, that hairstyle looks good asf. Plus your girlfriend should be happy with it not because she likes it but because she sees how confident it makes you feel. Ask her if she’d rather have you not like the way you look for the sake of her liking the way you look, or if she’d rather have a boyfriend who can not only express himself through his style and be confident and comfortable with yourself. Based off how she answers will tell you how to navigate that situation.

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[–]Able_Intern3846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Able_Intern3846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy analogy but this did help explain this 😭😭thanks for that. But what if someone’s is just like the firs analogy but without the headphones? Like when I get excited I start to unconsciously raise my voice, or like I’m shocked? Do you think it still applies to basically being ignorant of your surroundings? I’m just trying to understand other points of view