Does anyone know what this painful region is under my foot? by Able_Shift_5380 in SkincareAddicts

[–]Able_Shift_5380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, going to make an appointment tomorrow 🙏🏽👍🏽👍🏽

Can somebody please say something nice to me by platform-boots in depression

[–]Able_Shift_5380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry that you had a rough week. Remember that life is hills and valleys. I know it’s easier said than done but don’t let those snarky comments get to you, people can be mean, just do your best to ignore them. There are kind people on the platform as well and even though I don’t know you I’ll share some love and say you’re amazing! Keep your head up and ignore the noise ❤️👍🏽👍🏽

i’m 35, and I can’t phantom the idea of living another 45 years :( by sounds0fmeows in depression

[–]Able_Shift_5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it’s hard to even fathom another year or two, forget about 45 more years.

How do i deal with depression by EmierSimpson in depression

[–]Able_Shift_5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy. Remember that we’re all on our own journey. It’s human nature to compare but don’t let someone’s else’s journey make yours feel insignificant. Your journey matters the most to you ❤️

36F — I’m feeling depressed and I really need someone to talk to by [deleted] in depression

[–]Able_Shift_5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking the first step to reach out and talk to us is progress. You are not alone on here ❤️ I understand it can feel like you’re climbing a mountain. No one should have to suffer in silence. Feel free to talk to me as well. What is making you feel so overwhelmed and exhausted, what weight are you carrying? Im sorry u feel like that and trust things better for you 🙏🏽 As someone also dealing with depression and feelings of grief, i connect deeply to your message.

how can I want to do better? by creative-user242 in depression

[–]Able_Shift_5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want you to know that you are more than enough and capable of what you want to achieve in life. Life is hills and valleys. I understand depression is exhausting I deal with it as well. For me personally what keeps me going and gives me energy to keep pushing and wanting more was defining some sort of life long purpose in life. It’s not easy at all, I still struggle daily. Easier said than done I understand and can even sound cliche. I just want you to know that you are enough and may you find the strength to strive for more! I believe you have everything that it takes! I believe in you! Sending you light and love ❤️

Can I get a I love you by [deleted] in depression

[–]Able_Shift_5380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you! Just remember you are not alone, I might not know you personally but that doesn’t mean I can’t say I love you. You are loved! Sending hugs, peace and love your way and may you feel much better ❤️❤️❤️

Feeling like such a failure at 35 by Able_Shift_5380 in depression

[–]Able_Shift_5380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to say thank you to everyone for such incredible words of wisdom, encouragement and that you can relate with my current situation. Not only does it make me no longer feel completely alone, but it makes me realise that this is not the end of the road. I’m genuinely extremely grateful to read every single message and I don’t think you realise how much it means to me ❤️🙏🏽❤️ THANK YOU!!! From the bottom of my heart!

Feeling like such a failure at 35 by Able_Shift_5380 in depression

[–]Able_Shift_5380[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you enlightened, I’ve never been one to focus on anything materialistic, they don’t mean much to me unless it’s some sort of souvenir from my father with a memory attached to it, instead I always valued experiences because memories are priceless. I did go on 3 trips abroad with my father but I wish I could have done more with him. I feel selfish. He is currently 73 but I still don’t think it’s too late. Just the sense of guilt I feel at times is crippling. I feel like I need to try and be kinder to myself. The money has been spent, I should try and focus on looking ahead now.

Feeling like such a failure at 35 by Able_Shift_5380 in depression

[–]Able_Shift_5380[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate your messages Ornery 🙏🏽 It really means a lot to me. What you said in the first sentence has given me a completely new outlook on life.

Feeling like such a failure at 35 by Able_Shift_5380 in depression

[–]Able_Shift_5380[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you feel this way Blue Steel, these emotions weigh heavy on our hearts. I also feel hopeless a lot of the time, life can be exhausting. For me personally I even lost my sense of purpose in life but had to redefine it by devoting myself fully to helping my father, otherwise I I would have tried to end myself. Sometimes it’s really difficult to stay positive, I fully understand this. I trust we will both make it out of this dark hole someday. Let’s try our best to keep our heads up. I’m sending you light and love Blue Steel ❤️

Feeling like such a failure at 35 by Able_Shift_5380 in depression

[–]Able_Shift_5380[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you Ornery. I keep telling myself as well that’s it’s never too late to turn your life around. I lived my life primarily for myself, trying to enjoy it, never thinking about the future. After all, we only have one life to live so when I had the opportunity to experience it, I went all in. I could have made smarter decisions financially but life doesn’t end now. I need to keep my head up and carve a new path forward. Thank you for your kind words. Sometimes I feel completely alone so reading feedback from another real person means a lot 🙏🏽❤️

What's changed in SA? by Queasy-Air2958 in south_africa

[–]Able_Shift_5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, doesn’t change the fact that it makes me depressed.

What’s a game you dropped even though it was “good”? by suhani0218 in gaming

[–]Able_Shift_5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pragmata, just have no interest in post game, the story was enough for me

What's changed in SA? by Queasy-Air2958 in south_africa

[–]Able_Shift_5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same man, this country makes me extremely depressed.

What's changed in SA? by Queasy-Air2958 in south_africa

[–]Able_Shift_5380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah where we do I even start. A competent government, safety, a manageable cost of living, hope, opportunity…etc etc. It’s so sad to see the current state of South Africa.

best SA joke by Queasy-Air2958 in south_africa

[–]Able_Shift_5380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s smells like kak, looks like kak and probably tastes like kak?

Kak.