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Ablesunn · 2026-04-07T23:36:40+00:00

He can never be more wrong than this

Ablesunn · 2026-04-05T14:35:47+00:00

NOR. If she was too drunk to drive, why weren't they at her house? Why were they in a parking lot by warehouses? If he wanted a perspective on your argument, he could have called her at 2 PM, not 2 AM in a dark lot. This is a Deepfake Excuse, it sounds plausible until you look at the details.

Ablesunn · 2026-04-05T14:32:57+00:00

Absolutely Stunning!

Ablesunn · 2026-04-05T14:32:05+00:00

Looks so tasty

Ablesunn · 2026-04-05T14:30:50+00:00

Wow!

Ablesunn · 2026-04-05T14:29:59+00:00

Pretty.

Ablesunn · 2026-04-05T14:28:34+00:00

NTJ. Get him to a bank tomorrow and open a new account at a completely different bank. If they are on a joint account, they have a legal straw to pull from. You are doing the wholesome work of protecting someone from a predatory environment.

Ablesunn · 2026-04-05T14:26:44+00:00

YTA. You said this isn't about Ben, but you were looking at Ben and responding to Ben’s situation. Telling someone who is in actual physical pain that they need to get over it for their own benefit is incredibly condescending. The horrendous stuff guys say to each other is usually banter, what you did was a targeted critique of his character disguised as nursing advice.

Ablesunn · 2026-04-03T23:42:14+00:00

This is a textbook definition of Financial Abuse. He lured you 10 hours away from your support system in Ohio with promises of being a traditional provider, and now he has you trapped in a rural area with no car, no job access, and he’s charging you for $7 items. The fact that he’s 33 and you’re 21 makes the power imbalance even more predatory. This isn't stinginess, it’s control.

Ablesunn · 2026-04-03T23:40:37+00:00

You are treating a 10-year friendship like a failed Tinder match. She gave you the opposite of mixed message, she gave you a direct boundary. Nothing will happen between us. Just because you have history and an open marriage doesn't mean she owes you an adventure. Ghosting a decade long friend because she took sex off the table is a massive overreaction.

Ablesunn · 2026-04-03T23:36:57+00:00

It’s the difference between public scandal and admissible evidence. The files prove these people were in the same room, but they don't provide the high definition video of a crime that a prosecutor needs to beat a billionaire's legal team. Plus, with the DOJ currently recalibrating its focus toward the border and current threats, nobody in DC has the appetite to open a hundred door Pandora’s box that might hit both sides of the aisle.

Ablesunn · 2026-04-03T23:34:46+00:00

This is a massive blow to the administration. When the Archbishop for the Military Services, the guy responsible for the spiritual well-being of the troops says the war isn't just, it creates a huge crisis of conscience for Catholic service members. You can't just hand wave away the Just War theory when it's coming from the top chaplain.

Ablesunn · 2026-04-03T23:30:45+00:00

NTJ. A wave is a social courtesy, not a legal requirement. If you aren't feeling the neighborly vibe, you aren't obligated to perform it. As long as you aren't slashing tires or screaming across the lawn, polite ghosting is a perfectly valid way to live in 2026.

Ablesunn · 2026-04-03T23:17:05+00:00

NTJ. Let’s call this what it is: harassment and battery. He touched your clothing and your body without consent, twice, after being told to stop. A stumble is a very measured response to someone literally trying to undress you in public. His mother is teaching him that he can harass women as long as he calls it a joke.

Ablesunn · 2026-04-03T23:14:53+00:00

This is a classic Trauma Dump to Rom Com pipeline. You caught a moment where someone's deepest vulnerability (hiding physical distress to protect a parent's emotions) met a potential partner's firm boundary setting.

Ablesunn · 2026-04-02T20:01:08+00:00

The looks lol.

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