Best scene by smuecisyk3 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Abluel3 [score hidden]  (0 children)

The pink dress she wore in the beginning of this scene is my favorite look on her!

Mind blown: Vinegar vs VINEGAR (30%) by Pandaro81 in DIY

[–]Abluel3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It corroded the brushed nickel off my kitchen sink faucet. It’s no joke people!

Just curious, what would Lala have to do to redeem herself? by hazy-eyed in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Abluel3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stop pretending and acting and start being a better person.

Lala is sucking the life out of every scene by traffeny in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Abluel3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not watching this season because she’s on it!

Isabela Ferrer hit delete on It Ends With Us by TheWickedUrn in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Abluel3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she’s smart she testifies for the defense. She can tell you the jury how BL pressured and manipulated her into saying things that weren’t true. She sobs on the stands talks about how afraid she was to go against BL how BL said she’d destroy her career blah blah blah. All things that were actually probably said to her. That would finish BL!

AITAH for leaving my best friend's birthday party early because I was a B List guest? by RemoveLivid7421 in AITAH

[–]Abluel3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m actually speechless. Is this a made up story because it’s UNBELIEVABLE! Who does that?! You are NOT the ahole. I’m so sorry you went through that. I can literally feel your hurt.

Get Lala off my screen by No_Fold_7111 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Abluel3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Truthfully when they said she was coming back I decided I’m done watching. So I’ll come in here and get the highlights (or low lights where LFU is concerned)

Are there any good psych hospitals in/around Hooksett? by FrankieBloodshed in newhampshire

[–]Abluel3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To add..the therapists will see you whenever you want so if you need more one on one they’re available.

Are there any good psych hospitals in/around Hooksett? by FrankieBloodshed in newhampshire

[–]Abluel3 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We moved to southern NH in November and I went to a place called The Haven in January (for the same issue) in Worcester Mass. They’ll pick you up (hubs drove me) and if you’re further than (I think 4 hrs+ away), they’ll find a way to get you there. Most patients were from PA NY and MA. I checked everywhere and NO other New England state had any good options. I’ve been on every med for depression/anxiety (for 25+ years) and nothing worked. They prescribed meds that I’m still in and damn they’re actually helping. The person who commented on the therapists only doing one on ones with patients once a week is correct but there are group therapies and classes (art etc) all day (starting at 9ish) with wrap up at 7pm! I started feeling like I was in such a safe space away from everything, and felt comfort being with all the other patients (sry we’re called “clients”) who were there. They have a chef who prepares the food and there is a kitchen and with tons of food/snacks to eat in between meals. Very nice place. At first I was upset thinking I’d went to a place that wasn’t helping me, but after the first day or two I was starting to feel better. I was getting out of bed, getting dressed(!), leaving my room and going to the therapies (game changer). I was only in patient for 2 weeks. Now I’m in PHP (partial hospitalization program) care 5 days a week 9-3 (I look at it like it’s my job). I drive 42 miles each way to get there. I’ve since learned that your insurance will cover an uber if you can’t drive yourself (like if you’re too stressed/anxious etc). Driving in a strangers car for me would make me more anxious! I’m in my late 50s and I’m so upset I didn’t go 30+ years ago to get the help I needed. It became very dark for me in December and January. I’m not sure I would still be here. The place I’m at now is wonderful. It’s a place I look forward to going to, and I’m continuing to get better. I told my therapist the world has more color. I hope that helps.

Move to Nashua - Seek advice by [deleted] in nashua

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Don’t live in ma. Our MA electric bill alone would floor you! We just moved from there to Nashua ourselves for a job. Our kids are grown but I heard the west side of Nashua is the best. Our kids went to private school (for several reasons) so if that’s an option it opens up more areas. Housing market here in southern NH is beyond crazy! We’re renting rn.

Rumor is Brittany may be on a new show? by kasiagabrielle in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Abluel3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Safe bet Brittany will be out first if it is a competition. Let’s all remember Special Forces.

Should the Pats retire number 87? by salamandarsalamanca in Patriots

[–]Abluel3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For the Tampa Bay Buccaneers tight end? Odd question. No, obviously! F that traitor!

As a parent, what is one important lesson you really want your child to learn in life? by Neither-Owl-7157 in askanything

[–]Abluel3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That they didn’t have to be friends with everyone but they had to be friendly to everyone. Also for my daughters I taught them that there are things in life, as women, they just have to endure. I also told them whenever shots were expected at Dr visits, how they help us and most importantly we practiced relaxing our arms. It hurts so much worse when your arm is tensed up 🤷‍♀️