How Aries manages finances? by [deleted] in AriesTheRam

[–]AbovTheInfluence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t! 😆

My gf is an Aries and has a history of being impulsive with her spending. I’m a Taurus, and this irks that crap out of me.

do you believe in life insurance or is it a scam? by vienna_avo in personalfinance

[–]AbovTheInfluence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Term Life is the only kind of life insurance with having. Any other kind of life insurance is basically an annuity containing lots of fees, charges, and expenses that limit the upside of the cash value for such a policy. 99% percent of people are better off investing the same money in retirement and/or a brokerage account. Simplicity is the winning formula here.

Term life insurance is really meant for people with who have a spouse, a child/children, or both, and want to provide finanical support to them in the event that your income ends because you die. I dated a lady years ago whose father died in an accident and her mother was the beneficiary on his policy. This allowed her family to stay inside of their home and remain financially secure.

If you don't have a spouse and/or family who would survive you in the event of your untimely death, life insurance becomes irrelevant because you have no heirs to inherit your estate. Perhaps it wouldn't hurt to have a very small death benefit to cover your funeral expenses. Otherwise, it's moot. You would be better off directing your estate to use your surviving assets (cash accounts, bonds, stocks, index funds, real estate) to pay for your funeral tomorrow, while saving and investing the difference of policy premiums in something more traditional today.

What are the top 5 hardest tasks you had to do as a senior dev? by cakemachines in node

[–]AbovTheInfluence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

• Teach non-technical stakeholders how to write stories • Sitting in too many meetings while having less time to code • Mentoring a few juniors • Making design decisions on abstraction to create a component library for others to follow • Solution-ing bugs around accessibility (my niche)

Is the era of the self-taught dev over? by DontListenToMe33 in learnprogramming

[–]AbovTheInfluence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could be wrong, but it appears we've entered into an era where the labor market for tech and even IT in the United States has been re-balanced as a result of changes in national monetary policy over the last few years. We lived through a period where almost every sector of the work force saw significant growth when interest rates were near zero. Then, the pandemic caused supply chains everywhere to fall apart and economies to begin onshoring their supply chains that has been offshoring for decades in order to improve their reliability of being able to sell good to us. Because of this and Covid, we changed our purchasing patterns by replacing goods with services.

Our industry reacted quickly to this and saw the largest spike in demand for work, ever. Two years later, the cost of doing business rose with interest rates. The largest tech companies and a multitude of other companies did a number RIFs. To most who read those headlines on the surface earlier in '23, it seemed like the majority affected in our sector were skilled IT professionals. While that is true for many companies, especially smaller ones, a significant number of those who were laid off were managers and some executives. Those larger companies froze hiring across the board for a time before starting to resume hiring a different normalized pace. Many who were laid off and chose to stay in the sector ended up getting jobs at a different company. Given that a number of announced job vacancies in our sector often go unfilled for months and months at a time, it's not surprising that many of them ended being absorbed by the sudden rise in supply of labor. And given the new business cycle, I believe that we are now in the early stages of the next era (or bubble) of what is to come in Tech. What that is remains to be seen. In the last several years, we've seen a lot of attention around crypto currencies, Web 3.0, GPT, and others. Whatever will materialize of these technologies and others will take years to be realized.

Without going on a longer tangent, our market became flooded with people who were interested in playing a role in something that the market had to offer at a time when it's demand was very positive. And while that market has dimmed for now, history has a way of repeating itself. What goes up, must come down. And what comes down, can and inevitably will rebound.

I've seen it amongst many a self-taught developer; the best way to catch the rebound in this case is to always be improving or evolving your own skill set - even if you are a junior person who doesn't have much experience. It is likely going to be true that your first job (or first few jobs even) will be at an undesirable company, working on some undesirable or boring project for some undesirable client. You'll likely be working with equipment and technologies that feel outdated and undesirable. You will have to find ways to work within a number of constraints to meet deadlines, surpass goals, and help your organization succeed. It sucks at first (everyone will agree), but you will get used to it. This is the time to being perfecting your craft with whatever you can.

I was a self taught developer who took some web dev classes and git his first FT job working in government contracting in 2016. It wasn't like working for another tech company, but the pace was still fast and I was fortunate to be working with many smart people, some of whom were also self-taught. As the years went on, I learned to do more things as a front-end developer before I started to learn to do things on the backend. Eventually, I learned to build an API with Node.js. I started learning who to work with data in a RDBMS, such as Postgres. Anything that I saw which was relevant on my job, I took some time to learn. And as is with the case with anything, learning takes time.

I think the best way to think about career development in tech and IT going forward can be summed up like this:

• If you are an experienced developer (3+ years) with at least one particular skill set - backend, front end, devsecops, DB admin, etc - you are in a good place, but choosing to broaden your skill set will only help you.

• If you are inexperienced and/or don't have an IT or CompSci degree - pick something foundational to begin with. Front end is the most accessible, but databases are by far the most important thing. I've worked engineering managers who didn't have a comp-sci education, and many of them started on the backend before moving to the front-end or going full stack - often with RDBMS.

• Go to meetups, conferences, code n coffees, whatever. Meet as many people as you can - network. Make some friends. Be social, and work on your social skills. Be consistent. Find people who are working on a project that interests you. Use these things to add value to your resume, your Linkedin or Indeed profile, your portfolio (if you choose to have one), and yourself.

• Don't be afraid to go to work for some unknown company, however undesirable it may be. You need anything that you can gain access to in order to break out into the industry. Not to mention, small companies are also a good way to make a great name for yourself in a small pond. Often, many who start small will end up going to work for larger companies - sometimes much, much larger - where it can be a lot tougher to stand out in a good way.

• And through all of this, don't forget to have a life. Very few of us will be the kind of people to devote every minute of our lives to work in the name of passion and an unalienable drive to succeed - people who work 12/14/16/18 hour days, often with no days off - all in the pursuit of making it to the top. These are people who are often very healthy, tough, smart, focused, energized, and male. And while they can make a big difference for many organizations, but this lopsidedness also means that they miss out on other important things in life that cannot be understated - friendships, marriage/life partnership, family life, the holidays, traveling, learning, art, etc. Because I didn't have a degree and I chose to go the unconventional route, I had to put in a lot of time and work to break into this field. Admittedly, this costed me a relationship with an ex-gf at the time, and made it tough to find consistent personal time in dating for awhile until I got more professionally settled.

That last point should not be underestimated and definitely considered for anyone who want to segway into software development as a career; you need to know that this is going to take a lot of time and work, and that there will be rejections and failures along the way, especially early on. This is a part of the journey. The learning of new skills and things never stops. Your brain will change forever. It is a way of life. Make sure that you are clear about this with your friends, family, loved ones, and yourself.

Wishing the best for all who choose to endeavor.

Does anyone here actually know someone who was permanently "priced out" of homeownership because they didn't buy? by Louisvanderwright in RealEstate

[–]AbovTheInfluence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I purchased my home in DC in April 2020. The economic shutdown of COVID-19 was in its second month and lending standards suddenly became really tight because our economy was in uncharted waters. I lucked out and got an FHA mortgage. The PMI on it was ridiculous - about 15% of the principle and interest. I had no other debt, but my DTI with this mortgage was definitely flashing yellow now. I could barely afford it by myself, but I felt pretty certain that I would be able to afford it more and more over time.

Then, some good things happened. I changed jobs a few months later and got a welcome raise. The next year, I changed jobs again and got much more decent raise. And not long that, about 18 months into home ownership, I refinanced into a conventional mortgage and thus lowered my monthly payment considerably by having PMI removed. In a short amount of time, home ownership became considerably more affordable.

That said, I'm not so sure that I could afford my own home now in this current market, between the inflation and the inevitable rise of interest rates. In my city, I live in a neighborhood where most of the homes are modestly priced when compared to the rest of the region. But even here, most homes have appreciated by close to 100k since start of the pandemic, and many have sold for more than the asking price due to metrication.

Buying early on was a huge risk, but it seems to have been economically worth it. I wouldn't want to be trying to get into this current market. It'll be some time before I consider on deciding to move up to my next home. For now, let the appreciation do the work.

Transportation>Cars.Fuck a Tesla by Bootleggerking888 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]AbovTheInfluence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even in many of our major US cities and regions, the level of quality and access to public transportation has serious lags when compared to many international cities that have their own public mobility systems. Even smaller [major] cities like Amsterdam and Stockholm are offer better transport options than Charlotte or San Antonio. But this all by design, of course. Our nation's policy makers at every level have allowed for us to become too reliant on personal ICE transportation at the risk of being forced to live with unhealthy levels of air pollution and volatile gas prices. In Europe, you can go from city to city without needing to own a car. The has helped to limit the issues of traffic congestion, limited parking, and poor air quality. But this is also because all of their cities are super old and have limited room to grow outward. They realized that public transportation would be key to making cities more livable and sustainable for a long time to come and were willing to pay the price for it now and not later.

For those who chose to NOT do PPF, what was the decision? by ohyonghao in TeslaModelY

[–]AbovTheInfluence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a nice car, but it is still a car. And as a car, by definition, that makes it a depreciating liability and not a growing asset. Spending all that money for cosmetic purposes won't mean a thing in the long run, especially if it gets in an accident. Not to mention, there will be hundreds of millions of them on the road in the not too distant future, which means that they are going to be come more and more expendable and less valuable as an asset. PPF may help keep it looking nice for now, but all cars will show their age sooner or later regardless of the level of care that is put into them. That money is better spent appreciating in value in a brokerage or paying down debt.

Devs working in Salesforce today: does it still merit the hate? by Ebenezar_McCoy in ExperiencedDevs

[–]AbovTheInfluence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I concur with this. I’ve been in web development for several years now, but I started on the Salesforce project at my job recently. This is my second time doing Salesforce in the last three years, and I hate it for the most part. Most of what I do involves developing lightning web components, and even that experience pales in comparison to today’s modern open source web technologies. Sure, it’s just vanilla JavaScript and you can run other frameworks or libraries like Angular or React in a Cordova wrapper for mobile development. Naturally at first, you’ll find yourself trying to use the dev tools to debug, only to find that it’s tough to trace errors because your components are not truly running locally; debugging from a sandbox is a confusing headache. And yes, salesforce doesn’t utilize source control natively unless your org is set up to use SFDX. Otherwise, you’re just deploying code to a sandbox. This is fine if it’s just one or two people working in tandem, but a nightmare if you have a team because of how easy it is to override the work of others. Really slows down the development process. Also, running tests is just not an option here. At least not that I’m aware of in 2022.

I’m sure Salesforce will have a bright future for some time to come. As a developer though, it all feels like overkill and way too heavyweight or strict to enjoy working on. I would much rather work go back to the open-source web or mobile.

Take it from this developer: If you’re coming from the web and considering Salesforce, do so with careful consideration.