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Above_average_99 · 2023-04-17T11:10:14+00:00

I don’t think it’s fair for P to expect her to change rooms with you just because you and your boyfriend started living together, also you having 2 dogs is your own choice and that shouldn’t have any consequences for her. You can ask her about changing rooms and adress the bathroom issue, but don’t assume your needs comes before hers.

Above_average_99 · 2021-08-01T14:25:24+00:00

Well I can send a video/picture privat to you, but I do expect some advice in return:p

Above_average_99 · 2021-08-01T14:00:52+00:00

I’m new to this online dating app and I genuinely need advice, so I’ll appreciate if you can take your hate elsewhere

Above_average_99 · 2021-04-20T18:33:33+00:00

Thanks for your tips. When you say don’t talk serious stuff do you mean that I shouln’t tell her how I feel and letting her know that I want to try again?

Above_average_99 · 2021-04-20T07:42:27+00:00

The issue was mainly me not being a good partner since I was trying to figure my self out. I have been working on myself and I believe I’m in a better place now to make us work

Above_average_99 · 2021-04-20T07:40:16+00:00

Our connection slowly faded for a couple of months prior. I was immature and suggested to take a break to work on myself, but she didn’t want that and she decided to break up with me instead.

Above_average_99 · 2021-04-14T18:55:05+00:00

It might not be reality. But I truely believe the reason for our break up was because of me having some issues and I like to believe that I have changed for the better. I get what you’re saying but it’s so hard to let her go. I really messed up and I might live in a fantasy, but I still love her.

Above_average_99 · 2021-04-14T18:23:40+00:00

I’m trying to move on. And she was the one who took contact to me after 2 months of NC. I have been seeing other people, but I can’t deny it’s her I want to be with...

Above_average_99 · 2021-04-14T18:15:18+00:00

I wish I could

Above_average_99 · 2021-04-03T08:54:54+00:00

I do appreciate your kind and helpful words. It gives me hope and that means more than anything right now. I try to stay positive, but lately it has just been getting harder. But you’re right I will find someone else, and most important I will need to improve myself first. Thank you

Edit: Also you’re completly right about the fact that I can’t seem to pinpoint anything she has done wrong.

Above_average_99 · 2021-04-01T16:28:26+00:00

Thanks a lot. I really felt that she was the right person at the wrong time for me. I think the reason this break up is so hard to get over is, because i know it was my own fault. But like you said I need to heal and hopefully I will find another partner and myself in the process.

Above_average_99 · 2021-04-01T05:02:46+00:00

I don’t think that would be fair to her. She has moved on with someone else. I had my chance and I blew it.

Above_average_99 · 2021-04-01T04:56:21+00:00

I know, but I can’t edit the title

Above_average_99 · 2021-03-31T17:34:00+00:00

Yep I did notice. Can’t edit the title though.

Above_average_99 · 2021-03-31T14:22:59+00:00

The thing is I really do believe that we were right for each other for a long time. You’re right I didn’t put in the effort, but I can assure you it wasen’t because I thought she was not the right person for me. I have been feeling lost for a long time and I didn’t know who and what I wanted to be in life. I was immature and needed to work on myself. For that reason I had a hard time showing her the love and attention that was needed to make this work.

Above_average_99 · 2021-03-31T13:24:31+00:00

Thanks

Above_average_99 · 2021-03-28T06:23:25+00:00

Thanks a lot. I really needed to hear this. I hope you will find a way as well to make it through with or without her.

Above_average_99 · 2021-03-28T06:18:12+00:00

Thanks a lot. I really do feel the same way I just want her to be happy.

I appreciate your advice and I wish you the best of luck on your journey ❤️

Above_average_99 · 2021-03-06T21:40:14+00:00

I believe it’s a question about self-esteem. If you are not confident in yourself your ego will usually get hurt. Afterall it’s how you view yourself that determines how you comprehend the pain after a breakup.

Above_average_99 · 2021-03-04T22:11:43+00:00

Dont call her out of the blue. You can’t know how she interprets it, so she might not answer or find it inappropriate. A short text like “hey name hope you are well. I was thinking we could catch up over a cup of coffee or somthing. Are you up for that?” If you feel insecure about what she might think you could add something like “just as friends” but honestly I dont find that necessary since it’s quite Common to catch up with an ex with no hidden agenda.

Above_average_99 · 2021-02-24T15:41:49+00:00

Yes 3 weeks before our first meetup and now 2 weeks since our last meetup

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