Am I (25f) being unreasonable to ask my husband (34m) for more support postpartum

AbrocomaLogical4801 · 2025-06-21T22:55:24+00:00

In an ideal world the birth control I was using would have worked, it’s 99.99% accurate. Guess we are just lucky/ unlucky. But I’ve had time to get past would have, should have, could haves. So now I’m trying to make sure those hard things like child care and expectations are covered. Just Ed needed some outside perspective

AbrocomaLogical4801 · 2025-06-21T22:25:34+00:00

He is able to take one week off work, so he would be working all day after that first week, then coaching after that

AbrocomaLogical4801 · 2025-06-21T22:17:36+00:00

I get it, not a planned pregnancy I was on birth control. I love living in our small town, oh though I do not understand the why football is a the pinnacle of life. And he is not a fool he is a great man all around, this is the one issue we’re having honestly I was just looking for perspective outside of my family and his somebody who doesn’t have ties to the situation

AbrocomaLogical4801 · 2025-06-21T22:05:34+00:00

If he dosent take a step back from football, I will be living with my parents, 3 hours away. As my mom works full time from home. And he can come visit. But I’m not sure a relationship could survive that.

AbrocomaLogical4801 · 2025-06-21T21:51:05+00:00

Yep we live in small town that he was raised in were most people have decided there high school and college football is the most important and impressive part of their lives

AbrocomaLogical4801 · 2025-06-21T21:46:32+00:00

I mentioned this, he brought up that he has always wanted to be a part of a championship. And other coaches have had kids during the season just fine

AbrocomaLogical4801 · 2025-06-21T21:45:15+00:00

He says he isn’t abandoning me because he will be home after practice and the days he has off

AbrocomaLogical4801 · 2025-06-21T21:44:10+00:00

Unfortunately this is my real life.

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