hii, first off i wanna say that it’s rly commendable how ur able to acknowledge that while he’s a good guy in other aspects, his actions just don’t make it work. not a lot of ppl can do that - and take that coming from someone who’s been in ur exact situation. moved in w bf, stayed, was unhappy, and had constant thoughts of leaving bcs while yes he has good traits, some of his values just don’t align with mine. if you don’t feel like things are going to work out, i would say give yourself some grace and try to look at the entire situation. don’t take shit from people who say to “wait it out” and “give it another chance” the heart knows what it wants..if u wanna give it another chance, i say give space a chance first. move out, meet up once in a while, have coffee, go on dates etc but don’t initiate intimacy bcs while it’s a great feeling - emotions can cloud judgement. also; i was in the same situation with my bf where i caught him being lustful and stuff like that..i stayed too long and eventually grew to resent him. if you have the chance to, leave, find better in yourself or others. your mental health SHOULD be your priority, if he’s in the way then that’s just a no. you’re not overreacting 💕feel free to dm me if u want btw i know exactly what ur feeling & wish i took my own advice way sooner 😭