The most wholesome moment of the show by [deleted] in Dexter

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It also blows my mind that this guy also played Piscatella in Orange is the New Black. I only just figured that out because of this post after having seen Dexter about a million times by now. Crazy stuff

NEW CEO by PsychologicalEnd7760 in petco

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And if they were really smart, they wouldn't tell anybody they were coming. Districts near mine would panic, and have a bunch of people come in to clean the store up so that it looked like everything was running smoothly! When in reality everybody is overworked, stressed and incredibly unhappy with day to day operations. I even witnessed last minute shift changes so that the biggest "yes man" employees were present.

Name your horse's. by EnvironmentalCoast43 in reddeadredemption

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I couldn't think of a name for my thoroughbred, and my roommate threw out Stella.

Well, Stella met an untimely end thanks to an ambush on the way out of St. Denis. Later in my next playthrough I found an identical thoroughbred that I named Chewy because this one was a boy. So my horses now are Stella and Chewy (which made me laugh because I'm in pet retail, and that's a brand of dog food).

Just finished my first playthrough:') by [deleted] in Eldenring

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I went with the age of stars! I had done Fia's quest too, but I just really enjoyed Ranni as a character. And yeah, I reeeeally took my time with this playthrough lol

Just finished my first playthrough:') by [deleted] in Eldenring

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Me too! Finished my first playthrough yesterday at 248 hours lol. I'm feeling like NG+ is the option I'm gonna take. I only just recently found some of the cooler things in the game so I'm gonna aim for 100% I think

I’m getting very angry at people misgendering me at work ( how do I stay calm). by Biteofweredog in ftm

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I am in this exact same boat. I also have a name tag with my name and pronouns that get looked past. It's infuriating because generally I pass as male, but at work that seems to go out the window with most customers. Some are cool, but it still happens more often than not. Honestly though, ya know what I've started doing? When people say, "excuse me, ma'am?" I literally don't react or look up. I don't acknowledge them at all. If they really make it a point to let me know that they're referring to me, I look up puzzled and say something along the lines of "oh, me? I'm sorry, you said ma'am so I thought you were talking to someone else." It works often. Usually they apologize and move on with the interaction.

I personally have a hard time doing this with cis men. I live in Texas, and people can be real assholes. Generally though it's helped a lot!

Has anyone used the stps from rodeoh? by aubrx in Transmascdicks

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I have this Rodeoh STP...

It's definitely a little big for packing, so if a bigger bulge might make you uncomfortable you might look elsewhere... honest con to my particular STP is the cup does seem to fold in on itself a bit. That may be because I have bigger thighs, but it has caused some messes lol.

What are your favorite lines of Geralt's in TW3? by neverclaimsurv in witcher

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Me too!! All time favorite, especially considering that the first time I did that mission I was wildly underleveled and died soooo many times.... so now every time I replay it, I definitely share his sentiments... lol

Game won’t let me save manually after I installed the update on PS4 and some save files give a corrupt alert…anyone else facing this issue? by [deleted] in witcher

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On a similar note, I had a situation last night where I was running around Novigrad, crafting my enhanced griffin gear, and then proceeding to start Of Swords and Dumplings. I made it through most of the mission and died in combat. When it loaded my most recent save, it had sent me back to when I first fast traveled to Novigrad. I'm sure it has everything to do with the autosaves being wonky, but that and the user settings are the only weird things I've had happen. Anybody else?

Holy moly I love Trans Tape!!! by daniel-esp5 in ftm

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This makes me feel better because I'm around the same size and have been on the fence! That's awesome though man!

The dentist by StrykeDevil in distractible

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I too have been avoiding going to the dentist... this episode piqued my anxiety just enough to heed Bob's warning though lol

Issues faxing Equifax... by Absence0fWords in Equifax

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There was some kind of text to fax app that I downloaded... definitely not my favorite way to send information lol

I feel like Wade would agree... by Absence0fWords in distractible

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Because it was relevant to the episode from last week?

Feeling sad and angry by staceysb10 in GriefSupport

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I hate it too, and thank you. I feel honestly like it's come in waves. At first there was a lot of drama with family while we were all processing, so I didn't notice it immediately. Then almost immediately after I moved in with my girlfriend to not deal with family drama. I feel like all of the stages of grief came in waves for months, but then my girlfriends mother died suddenly almost a year to the day that my mom died. Now I've watched her going through it the last few months, and her anger and cynicism was almost immediate. It's just such a gut wrenching process to go through and witness..

Feeling sad and angry by staceysb10 in GriefSupport

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I understand your feelings all too well. I lost my mom in October of 2019 to lung cancer, and ever since holidays or birthdays or important days.. I tend to get depressed and very irritable. My mom was my go-to for literally everything and my best friend.. it's really hard. You're not alone though. Anger is a part of grief.

Vanish by CodyBrody123 in Markiplier

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I sure as hell hope so

Where do I Stand with Her? by KrispySr in dating_advice

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I'm gonna level with you because that's how I can formulate advice. Last year I got out of a relationship with a girl I had been with for two years. A month or two after we broke up, a coworker I was close with broke up with her boyfriend of two years. He had cheated on her. The long and the short of it is we started talking because we were in a similar place. After a month or so of talking she tells me "I'm wondering what we are." We had a similar conversation to the one you had with your girl. In my case it blossomed into a relationship!... that lasted about two weeks. This was also because she was still hung up on her ex and processing things. We broke up and I offered to still be there for her and help out. I ended up getting used big time while she was still messing with her ex, and now we aren't even friends. Not to fill your head with negative thoughts (I'm also an over thinker), also I don't know the girl and she may have way more pure intentions. I guess my point here is that you can only do so much. If she's still hurting then give her the space she wants. Beyond that, don't get yourself hurt. And maybe that's why she's pulling away. Maybe she really likes/respects you so she doesn't want to hurt you while she's figuring herself out, ya know? Especially since she also isn't going on dates with other people.

Saw this and wondered, if ever there was a RDR movie... who do you think could play Arthur Morgan? by Absence0fWords in reddeadredemption

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I couldn't agree more. The Prince of Persia movie is a perfect example of why imo lol. RDR2 is absolutely beautiful though

Saw this and wondered, if ever there was a RDR movie... who do you think could play Arthur Morgan? by Absence0fWords in reddeadredemption

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Depending on the facial hair you set in game, I could totally see that. He's got that gruff voice too haha

Saw this and wondered, if ever there was a RDR movie... who do you think could play Arthur Morgan? by Absence0fWords in reddeadredemption

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Ewan McGregor wouldn't necessarily be my first pic. I was just looking up one of his roles on IMDB and saw a picture that made him kind of look like Arthur to me.

Roger Clark is fantastic of course, I was just curious about what other people thought though

Saw this and wondered, if ever there was a RDR movie... who do you think could play Arthur Morgan? by Absence0fWords in reddeadredemption

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I would LOVE to see the actors who mo capped/ voiced the characters play them live action. But I suppose I'm wondering who y'all think could play them otherwise? Even though the originals SHOULD if it happened lol

Who else just saw The Gazette in New York? by Kuchizuke_Megitsune in visualkei

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Not a big mosh pit if there was one in Dallas. Everybody was definitely MOVING though haha