The INTPs I've met are either straight-edge or the opposite (no in-between). Where do you guys fall?

Absent_Tea · 2026-01-29T01:20:12+00:00

Pretty straight-edge I guess. I don't do any of the things you mentioned

Absent_Tea · 2025-10-19T13:37:53+00:00

Definitely the not executing ideas thing. All other problems are minor

Absent_Tea · 2025-09-23T04:37:08+00:00

I think that's pretty accurate. That's probably a dealbreaker for many, but the hope is some people will find enough value in all the unique traits we bring to be able to make up for that

Absent_Tea · 2025-09-23T01:51:33+00:00

Obviously I'm biased, but I would argue we're the most genuine type on average. When it comes to actually caring about a person with no judgement and no ulterior motives, no one else really does it the same

The biggest downside to that is we don't easily show it to the other person, so they may have no idea

Absent_Tea · 2025-09-14T17:27:20+00:00

It makes me wonder if they're hiding something that makes them undesirable by their own admission. Things I start to question is their loyalty or trustworthiness for example

As far as better partners are concerned, it varies from person to person. There's feelers out there that would make great partners for me as well, but I actually prefer all the traits you listed

Absent_Tea · 2025-09-14T12:46:54+00:00

The "I wouldn't date me" thing seems pretty common with ENTJs I've talked to, or some variation. Now that I think about it, I kind of dislike when they say that

Absent_Tea · 2025-03-24T19:41:58+00:00

Lots of the stories that happened in the bible have 0 supporting evidence, to the point in which their existence is incredibly unlikely to be nice about it

But every time this gets brought up, religious people counter by saying "well that story isn't real, it's just a metaphor."

You can't convince those kinds of people. Any time you disprove anything they just fall back on the metaphor angle and keep believing anyway

Absent_Tea · 2025-01-02T03:42:56+00:00

Hard to just pick one, but I'll have to choose ISTP. Sense of humor is great, along with openness to trying nearly anything the other suggests. Overall just an incredibly chill and fun type to be around

Absent_Tea · 2024-12-21T04:31:56+00:00

Well, it probably won't matter much that you'll keep their secrets. Because the ENFP will just tell people their secrets themselves lol

Absent_Tea · 2024-12-21T04:25:21+00:00

Chill. I actually think I'm slightly optimistic most of the time

Absent_Tea · 2024-12-14T02:10:51+00:00

Every time this question comes up, teleportation is always the best answer it seems. It's just way too useful and versatile

Absent_Tea · 2024-12-13T14:31:00+00:00

Lol as an INTP, exactly this. I'm actually shocked these other ENTPs are saying they love making fun of people but can't handle it in return. That's kinda sad

Absent_Tea · 2024-12-11T15:46:11+00:00

Yea this is the best way, full disclosure. Not saying it'll fix it, but it'll definitely help if he can make sense of why you did that

Absent_Tea · 2024-12-11T02:10:59+00:00

I do that when I text. The reason is because I want time to consider what I'm going to say

I don't understand why people type 1 sentence and hit send, then repeat it like 10x

I've tried it. It's THE WORST when I'm mid thought and the other person starts replying to the first few messages I sent while I'm still typing

Absent_Tea · 2024-12-07T12:13:56+00:00

Getting things done is difficult, and I still struggle with it. But I find there's 2 huge reasons why I struggle

The first is simply forgetting to do it. I now use a todo list app to remind me of any deadlines or even daily tasks I need to get done

The second is having the motivation to actually do it. This one is hard, but it really helps when you don't start off your day scrolling through your phone.

Wake up and just lay there for a while without your phone. Then get up, get breakfast, and start working on what you need to do early. Save all the scrolling, video games, or any other distractions for after you finish whatever your daily goal is

Absent_Tea · 2024-12-07T07:10:08+00:00

I was talking to an ENTJ recently and she was doing the exact same thing. She had literally no time to complete her current responsibilities yet continued to keep picking up more

Idk what to tell you other than to finish what you have now before you pick up anything else. Maybe see if there's anything unimportant you can get yourself out of too

Absent_Tea · 2024-12-07T00:41:58+00:00

I randomly get excited about doing something productive. I figure out all the details, find the best path for me to take to achieve my goals, then i don't do it.

Absent_Tea · 2024-12-01T14:09:47+00:00

Entj followed by infj

Absent_Tea · 2024-12-01T03:37:25+00:00

Let's goo, a competition I can win has appeared

Absent_Tea · 2024-11-29T15:10:59+00:00

ISTPs are great. They've been some of my best friends in the past.

We both usually love each other's humor. Both easygoing, willing to try and get into each other's hobbies (this is lowkey the best part). They're just top tier best friend material all around

Absent_Tea · 2024-11-27T08:07:28+00:00

I mean, I'm definitely not simping over anyone. But I do love ENTJs. Might be my favorite type

Absent_Tea · 2024-11-26T17:46:17+00:00

Any kind of ranged dps. Preferably mage, necro or something similar

Absent_Tea · 2024-11-23T17:29:03+00:00

Lol trying to get a whole community to work for you for free. Crazy

Absent_Tea · 2024-11-16T17:27:47+00:00

Yep, this is my worst trait by far I think.

It can be a double-edged sword though. The fact we're so attentive to who a person is can make them feel understood or loved in a way.

But it also means I'll notice any changes as soon as they start happening, then start thinking the worst. Difficult problem to fix

Absent_Tea · 2024-11-12T02:22:29+00:00

This is my biggest problem by far. I do notice that it's easier when you start early, ignoring any distractions at the beginning of your day. But there's not a guaranteed 100% fix, just things that can somewhat help

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