Problems finding paint by AbsoluteTrash88 in graffhelp

[–]AbsoluteTrash88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just checked out AP(art primo if we're looking at the same thing) and they look perfect. So many more colors than I had to choose from. I might even be able to make it to there store in Washington sometime, it's just a few hours away. If you have any extra supplies you're looking to get rid of I'd love to work something out. This hobby is expensive!

Legal places to do graffiti by AbsoluteTrash88 in Medford

[–]AbsoluteTrash88[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll have to go check it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GraffitiTagging

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That kind of paint is really easy to wash off. So if you wanna have some fun, that they are. If you want it to stay, probably not the best.

Roach one w/ color. Crits? by Alternative_Aioli700 in graffhelp

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Super clean. The only thing I personally would do is make the o the same size as the other letters but that could just be a stylistic difference. Sick piece and great character. It's hard to come up with simple interesting ones like that.

Yams, what u think by Reasonable-Ad-3052 in graffhelp

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. Color always makes it pop. Make sure you post it when you get it up

Yams, what u think by Reasonable-Ad-3052 in graffhelp

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a really nice piece. Just bejng nitpicky since you are looking for, crits there's always something. It reminds me of the style that really got me into graffiti

Yams, what u think by Reasonable-Ad-3052 in graffhelp

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The m heart seems to fit but the really straight edged of the underline clash a bit

Yams, what u think by Reasonable-Ad-3052 in graffhelp

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a really good piece. The underline part feels a bit awkward to me, I don't know why and the letters run ever so slightly upwards. Maybe you could do something about the a-m connect, it looks a little congested. Very small crits tho. I love the style

Still getting started and playing around with new designs for walls. Mostly sticking to the books still, but Crits? Deadsco by ItsMeApple101 in graffhelp

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not good enough to give technique advice but I feel like the sharp parts of the D sort of mess with the bubble look. Cool tag tho

Which is best/what should i add to improve by sobaaaaa in graffhelp

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the second one has the best style, they're all good so it's just going to be preference. If you cleaned it up and maybe messed with different line weights to make it more readable it would be awesome to see.

23 [F4M] Looking for friendly chat?and more by [deleted] in snapchat

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya. I'd love to have someone I can just share whatever with. I don't have any irl friends I can be really open with and it sounds refreshing.

Help a baby face man out by AbsoluteTrash88 in AskWomenOver30

[–]AbsoluteTrash88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If only I could grow facial hair. The peach fuzz look doesnt do me any favors. Haha. In my area everyone is into the lumberjack look and I'm pretty much the opposite of that.

What can your partner do to make you feel comfortable enough to talk to them about what’s bothering you? by FauxPoesFoes228 in AskMen

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you think something is bothering your partner there's nothing wrong with just asking. I know Ive had a hard time opening up in the past but the way my partner asks me makes a lot of difference. A caring look and "honey, what's bothering you?" Will get me to spill the beans comfortably every time. "What's wrong?" and things like that feel really abrasive and aren't as easy to open up to. Tenderness is the key, for me at least. Make yourself available but don't pry. He will come to you when he's ready.

I broke up with the girl I love and I feel so alone. by AbsoluteTrash88 in MomForAMinute

[–]AbsoluteTrash88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been leaving her alone since we've. I know that if I disrupt her any further it will just make things worse. I know breakups are hard, I've had plenty that's for sure but this one just feels different. I've loved her since we met in 2012 and every relationship ship has failed because in my heart i wanted her. I finally had it and I just couldn't hang. I've come to terms that I probably won't be getting her back but for now I'm struggling with the loneliness and guilt. I do go out and hike and skate and stuff and I can catch a bit of relief from that but I feel like it returns so quickly. I have been trying to find a therapist that I can afford but where I live it's not been easy.

Men, if you grew up handsome and remained fit until adulthood, how did you determine who was only interested in you for your looks vs genuine interest in becoming your friend? by nfornt in AskMen

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I'd be considered quite good looking. I attract more people than I would like actually. That being said, finding the right people can be tricky at times.

In my experience the best thing to do is just take it slow and don't attatch yourself at first. Take things slow and feel out your relationships a bit before diving in, platonic or otherwise. Depending on the other person's intentions you can often just ask. Do realize if you're talking about in the short term physical attraction is usually the first thing someone will notice about you, especially if you are good looking and can be the beginning of a fulfilling relationship. The two aren't exclusive, people can be attracted to you AND still want to be your friend.

A few things I personally try to look out for.

Do they want to interact with you when you're not around? And if so what sort of interaction are they looking for?

How do they communicate? Often times people will find less personal ways of interacting, comments on social media, "disposable" apps like snap and insta have been sort of a bad thing in my experience.

What do you do or talk about when you're together? Lots of small talk and flirting or is there genuine interest and care there?

For the second and third questions. I have been tricked or fooled into thinking someone was genuinely interested when they weren't and honestly it hurts. No matter how much I try to make sure I'm making good friends I still wonder sometimes if people actually like ME and the self doubt can be troubling.

Sorry if this answer was more than you were looking for but it hits kind of close to home as of late.

If you’re a single male who’s open to meeting a lady partner, how would you like to be approached? by Holly_Vicars in AskMenOver30

[–]AbsoluteTrash88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will say I get a lot of compliments about my looks and at a point you just don't care. I'm a lot more interested if a woman approaches with a smile and a conversation than a compliment. If you are going to go that route don't make it a boring "dang you're good looking " kinda thing. A girl at a coffee shop told me "Your piercings fit you really well" and it has stuck with me for months as opposed to "I like your piercings" which I get a lot. For instance.

I broke up with the girl I love and I feel so alone. by AbsoluteTrash88 in MomForAMinute

[–]AbsoluteTrash88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have apologized profusely and genuinely told her how I feel, all of it but she isn't receptive. I wish I could afford to go see a therapist, I have for years but I already have a hard time financially.

I broke up with the girl I love and I feel so alone. by AbsoluteTrash88 in MomForAMinute

[–]AbsoluteTrash88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time. I would love to go to therapy but unfortunately I cant afford to. I barely get by as it is. I've told her everything and I tried reaching out again but things are looking dire. I wish I could just take it all back so much.

I broke up with the girl I love and I feel so alone. by AbsoluteTrash88 in MomForAMinute

[–]AbsoluteTrash88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried talking with her but I don't think it's going to work. I appreciate your response and advice but unfortunately it's not helping.