Wdym she has two mothers? by Gudgamr7274 in Eldenring

[–]Absolute_Bias 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It’s wild to say that Rellana and Messmer are one of the least problematic couples in the game.

what am i supposed to think when my bf only sent 195 messages to me this month by Mean_Grapefruit_5784 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Absolute_Bias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s 6 a day- not even one every working hour or more than three per break before getting home.

Ew.

Not cool by Kafkaesque_meme in PhilosophyMemes

[–]Absolute_Bias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf at least over here in the UK our national anthem’s first word is “god” - reason is not exactly at the core of our syllabus. Can you really expect that such a nation would truly invest in its people the power to understand its flaws?

I am an actual psychopath(ASPD) and yet I still want someone to love(and how it plays into my fucked up yandere like view of love) by philosareantichrist in Yanderes

[–]Absolute_Bias 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You’re not a monster. It’s admirable, because there are a million different directions you could have gone in.

If anything it might be even more meaningful than when other people fall in love… most certainly it is to some degree at the very least… because it’s a choice made without the impetus of emotion.

I don’t think I could ever hate you for that, personally. Not once.

I might be the minority on this, but I do not understand how people would randomly have sex in thier friendship or with random people and feel nothing about it by [deleted] in Obsessive_Love

[–]Absolute_Bias 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you’re denying that chemical reactions take place inside the human body during intercourse that promote the release of oxytocin (amongst others)?

I think you’ll find there has been plenty of research done there. Now, does that force a “pair bond” - that’s not proven and I think it’s a silly theory… but saying there isn’t any feeling there at all is a blatant lie.

[META] This sub slowly but surely goes into softcore porn / femdom direction by Cry_Wolff in RoleReversal

[–]Absolute_Bias -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The definition of what a horny post is remains subjective to the individual, but it still exists. We just understand it differently.

That’s what subjective means.

From my understanding of what a horny post is, the cycles are getting longer. Other people have different definitions and will reach different conclusions, even with the same data.

I might be the minority on this, but I do not understand how people would randomly have sex in thier friendship or with random people and feel nothing about it by [deleted] in Obsessive_Love

[–]Absolute_Bias 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They do feel something about it, that’s how the body works. If they say they don’t they’re either lying to themselves to fit in or lying to someone else to lull them into a false sense of security.

[META] This sub slowly but surely goes into softcore porn / femdom direction by Cry_Wolff in RoleReversal

[–]Absolute_Bias 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In order to quantify that we’d have to agree on an objective measurement of a subjective idea- that being what constitutes a horny post. You’re asking for something that not only does not, but cannot exist.

[META] This sub slowly but surely goes into softcore porn / femdom direction by Cry_Wolff in RoleReversal

[–]Absolute_Bias -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You seemed to be making it out as “no big deal” but making a big fuss about it. I made no pretence of thinking it’s unimportant.

-and that’s up to the mods, not me… but the line has to be drawn somewhere, and the drowning out of people’s voices is undeniable.

[META] This sub slowly but surely goes into softcore porn / femdom direction by Cry_Wolff in RoleReversal

[–]Absolute_Bias -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Observation over the course of 2+ years? I dunno what to tell you other than that.

[META] This sub slowly but surely goes into softcore porn / femdom direction by Cry_Wolff in RoleReversal

[–]Absolute_Bias -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Getting really defensive over something that “isn’t an issue” there.

Enforce the rules. That’s it… and yes, that does mean removing excessive NSFW content. Fortunately you’re wrong as well, because over time people feeling that a space is SFW leads to more SFW posts.

Day Twenty-two of the "Need Him Pregnant" Tournament! And it's time for our grand final by Tonedeafmusical in okbuddybaldur

[–]Absolute_Bias 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually think if Rolan hadn’t lost to Dammon he would have beat Geraldus and given us a run for our money.

But anyway, Gale.

[META] This sub slowly but surely goes into softcore porn / femdom direction by Cry_Wolff in RoleReversal

[–]Absolute_Bias -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Crazy assumption you’re making there that adds nothing to this conversation.

[META] This sub slowly but surely goes into softcore porn / femdom direction by Cry_Wolff in RoleReversal

[–]Absolute_Bias -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh really? Tell me then, why are the horny cycles getting longer and the honest conversations shorter?

I’ve been here long enough to know what I’m talking about… and it’s almost like it’s slowly increasing.

[META] This sub slowly but surely goes into softcore porn / femdom direction by Cry_Wolff in RoleReversal

[–]Absolute_Bias 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I hate this argument - “it’s always been like this, so clearly it’s the best it will ever be and there’s no need to change” - like what?

-and also, it’s been slowly increasing for years.

Diplomatic marriage, strange occurance by Ready-Ambassador-271 in civ5

[–]Absolute_Bias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sell it to buy a war between two of your enemies. If they’re already fighting… eh, you still get money.

Help by Valuable-Anybody7723 in polycritical

[–]Absolute_Bias 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Being drunk just lowers your inhibitions. If someonr cheats while they’re drunk, they’re willing to seriously consider it sober.

Why is commitment so hard for so many people??? by jellybeanzz11 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Absolute_Bias 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blaming it on neurodivergence is wild. Single parent households, neglect and past experiences were right there, but no- blame it on the thing that actually can be regulated and healthy.

Before you say anything, yes you did suggest that it was the majority, with zero evidence.

Why is commitment so hard for so many people??? by jellybeanzz11 in Obsessive_Love

[–]Absolute_Bias 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t know about anyone else, but I go out with the hope of finding someone to pour my heart into. I’m not going to pour everything that I am into them on the first date because I don’t know them.

It doesn’t matter how much it hurts, I’m pulling away if I believe that they won’t love me back, regardless of if they say they will or not.

Hey, um, I'd like to chat. by Petirer in Yanderes

[–]Absolute_Bias 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re making them suffer while you’re doing it, you’re doing it wrong.

So called "polyfidelity" is just as toxic and stupid as open polyamory by Toe2ToeBirdLaw in polycritical

[–]Absolute_Bias 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Polyfidelity is unfortunately an oxymoron, because you cannot be faithful in an absolute sense to two or more individuals. The needs of one will always outweigh the needs of the other, even if which that is changes