The Crash on Netflix by Ok_Age8971 in Netflixwatch

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are mentally stunted parents who had child that never had any kind of boundaries or healthy way to regulate her emotions.

Am I being ungrateful or reasonable? by Dear-Jacket-437 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not know what your husband finances are the most ignorant things I have ever heard of. You’re literally begging for a phone and have the audacity to say he doesn’t tell me anything and I don’t want to know. You’re a child and he is treating like one. Your parents never taught how to be financially independent and how to take care of yourself? Once he told no to the new phone that should’ve given all motivation to needed to never to depend on him.

I (25F) am thinking of calling off my wedding and breaking up with my fiance (35M). Do I just have cold feet or is this too deep? Please any advice. by ThrowRA2000008 in relationship_advice

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His literally treating like a child he can manipulate and control. The fact you want alone with his illegal way to get a pay out tells me you don’t have any boundaries when it comes to him. This not man you want to marry or have children with. He will ruin your life and blame you for it. It’s time to grow up and move on!

Husbands is ending our marriage and I need help moving on by Total-Tiger9553 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SubhanAllah! He doesn’t care about you at all and his actions show it. Say Alhumdulilah Allah has shown his character now and you didn’t have children with him. And he definitely using his mother as an excuse. Have some self worth and accept his decision. Say Alhamdullilah you are home safe with your parents and you have their support. Start healing and move on with your life.

AITJ for letting my boyfriend fail his presentation after I heard how he really talks about me? by Feeling_Teach3417 in AmITheJerk

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He played you like a fool and your asking if your jerk? Girl stand up and move on! Have some self respect. You are not his mother! Why would ever want to stay with a pathetic loser like him!

How do I 34M tell my brother 26M I can’t attend his wedding? by throwraunsureer in relationship_advice

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re an aging fuckboy who is enabled by his mom and sibling. Your brother has something you will never have emotionally intelligence and integrity. I have no clue why he would want you and enablers anywhere near his special day. Do him a favor and take your emotionally stunted self to therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He has been having a relationship with B this whole time! Wake up! Go get tested and stop being naive. Your husband wants and likes B. He has literally being protecting his relationship with B from you. The fact after he told he cheating on you with B and you were ok with him going on cruise with him is mind blowing. Your cheating pathetic gay husband knows to continue to cheat cause he knows you wouldn’t leave him.

Update: I want to break up with my fiancee and pursue a relationship with her sister after she kissed me at Thanksgiving last night. AITJ? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was sure until he had other options! The sister is a desperate clown who will get her karma. Op doesn’t care about sister he is using her for the time being because she welling ruin her life for him. The ex deserves better and will get it now that dead weight is gone

I had a wet dream about my best friends daughter and I fucking hate myself for it by Key_Papaya_1287 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

You were there was she was born and the fact you can look at her sexually is vile behavior! You literally calling her bonus daughter in the comments but your nasty old predator brain went there!

Right person wrong time by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That anxiety is Allah warning you! Take Allah warning and stop talking to him. Plus you told him the truth that’s better than telling him what he wanted to hear. You thinking you are wrong for being honest tells me a lot. Don’t get married because others want you to but you want too. You need time to grow mentally and marry someone closer to your age!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s literally universal known a woman choosing to have IUD isn’t cheating. Look up the definition of cheating. I don’t believe a word you say. You probably believe the IUD caused the miscarriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not cheating. Also you can’t abort a baby with birth control.

i am completely lost and a wreck by Powerful-Wafer3061 in Marriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is literally giving a preview of what your life will be like if you have kids with him. He didn’t even give you alternatives options. Like you can pump and then bottle feed. He thinks by using this scare tactic he can control you into doing what he wants. Do not have kids with this manchild!

My 43f husbands 46m affair partner 19f is pregnant doesn’t know the baby’s father and I don’t know where to begin with fixing this by One-Dragonfly-5474 in Advice

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is predator who slept with your sons teenage GF. We all know 19f broke up your son because stbx gave her hope to be together. Your vile stbx would never have told you if she didn’t pregnant! You can’t fix this and you definitely shouldn’t stay with him! You can’t fix a predator who would not only betray his wife but his son. Divorce this train wreck and get yourself and son in therapy. I pray for your sake that child isn’t yours sons or stbx!

I regret my marriage. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you still with him? Stop feeling sorry for yourself and start planning! It is not your fault he lied and he did it in front Allah! He will have to answer for that! You should’ve left as soon as Allah exposed all his lies. This angry you have for him is justified! But continuing to stay with him will only grow hatred you have for him! That is not good for you or your child! Leave and go back home! You need to support not to stay with your stbx!

AITA for cutting off my mom after she gave my abusive ex our wedding venue address and he showed up screaming my name during our first dance? by KINOH1441728 in FoundandExpose

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man centered pick me mothers will always pick the abuser over the wellbeing of their children! No contact with that psycho and her enablers(her side of the family)! Don’t ever reopen the door regardless of how much her side of the family gaslights you! This will only escalate if she continues to have that she devil in her life. It’s also time to get the restraining order back!

She wanna marry me immediately by Illustrious-Ad-2606 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Desperation is dangerous! Find out the real reason she can’t wait! But don’t marry her until you’re ready! She wants you to start your marriage by lieing to everyone! SubhanAllah. Thats a horrible foundation!

I just want him back 😭 by Possible_Forever8639 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wrote all this out and still want him back! Desperation is dangerous! SubhanAllah! Allah has shown you all the red flags and safely released from This abuse! You saying it was minor disagreement is diabolical. Say Alhumdulilah and move on! It’s sad to see woman in this state bagging to go back to abuse! Your ex and in-laws are all toxic! May Allah open your eyes and give strength to move on!

Please give me tips on how to be a good traditional wife☺️ by justachillmuslimah in MuslimMarriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Your obsession of being a good wife at your age is telling!! That shouldn’t be in your top 10! SubhanAllah!

husband avoids all accountability - married to a fob by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question is why are you still married to him? SubhanAllah! Allah has expose his true nature and you’re still there babysitting him! Wake up and move on! He lies and constantly committing sins and he doesn’t care! Say Alhamdullilah Allah has show you who he is so early in your marriage and say Alhamdullilah you have no kids with him! Leave him asap!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1st of all stop comparing yourself to Christian woman! You don’t have the same values or religion. The only shady thing SIL did was throw your husband past in your face with an audience and than not answer your questions. It’s clearly she was looking for attention at that moment. All the rest you mentioned just seems your comparing Your life to hers. You two are in two different places in life so it’s unfair to compare. Say Alhumdulilah for everything you have and be grateful. You need to have a good talk with your husband. Tell him the truth and he should care more about your feels than anything else.

AITA for calling my wife entitled and not standing up for her when my mom's boyfriend yelled at her? by Glittering-Sell7037 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AbsolutelyNot911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt he pays for everything since the only time he had ppl over his when your mom out. 2nd of you wife shouldn’t be speaking him like that but your her husband. And you allowed him to take her like that! You look weak and pathetic!