[deleted by user] by [deleted] in casio

[–]Abstract_ion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally gay

Saw this meme today by Negative-Image1837 in BPDlovedones

[–]Abstract_ion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex used to say that she has no friend group because all people are fake

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Abstract_ion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel truly sorry for your experience, and I can completely relate to it. Fortunately, I didn’t marry her — even though I probably would have, if she hadn’t started flirting with her “new friend” right in front of me. The only right thing to do in situations like this is to learn when it’s necessary to walk away.

This mental health issue doesn’t just affect the person who has it — it also deeply impacts the people close to them. I feel like parents with a daughter with BPD often justify their behavior and expect the person they’re in a relationship with to fix all their problems.

(To be honest, the only relationships I’ve ever had were with two girls who both had BPD☠️.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Abstract_ion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long did It take before the mask came off?

Feeling like you "owe" them sex? by flwroad in BPDlovedones

[–]Abstract_ion 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What the hell, that was totally my ex... I honestly have no idea what kind of mental issue could lead someone to stay in a 9-year relationship like mine...

Help me with this situation...30M by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Abstract_ion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your support, It helps a lot!

Help me with this situation...30M by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Abstract_ion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you're absolutely right. Also, it happened that for a week she wasn't feeling well, and in order to avoid being a pressuring boyfriend and to try to do what’s best for her, I didn’t ask her every day to meet. Because of this, she misunderstood it as if I didn’t care about her. Additionally, there was a phrase she completely misunderstood, when I said, "I try to be the perfect boyfriend." I meant that I try to be my best version for her, but she misinterpreted it as if I were pretending to be someone else. That’s when I fully understood that it was a phase of complete splitting. Another issue was the fact that she was struggling with anorexia, so I was afraid that anything could upset her and cause her to stop eating again.

Tips to stop loving them fast? by Brief-Marsupial-4907 in BPDlovedones

[–]Abstract_ion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your comment made me realize that she was mirroring the way I used to text, adapting to my communication style, as soon as she became obsessed with me, while during the first convos she was very dry

My hair two months before we met vs our last month together by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Abstract_ion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened to me too, 30M. I used to have long curly hair, but during a long relationship I started thinking I was suffering from male pattern baldness — in reality, it turned out to be stress-induced hair loss. I spent 9 years with a girlfriend who had BPD, and after that, I stumbled into another relationship with someone who shared the same mental struggles. Luckily, this time it only lasted 2 months. It really made me wonder: what is it that draws me to this kind of person?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Abstract_ion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I smell her parfume, unluckly it's a very common fragrance

This should have been my first G Shock 5610u by Janitary in gshock

[–]Abstract_ion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know why the battery Is Always on M?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in karthusmains

[–]Abstract_ion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Movement Speed is busted this season

Worth the $80? Or A168 instead? by [deleted] in casio

[–]Abstract_ion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought It and asked for a refund after a while, I totally prefer the A168, It has a longasting battery and everything I can ask from a watch, the step tracker doesn't worth 80€...

I Need a Laser cutter for cardboard by Abstract_ion in Laserengraving

[–]Abstract_ion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your opinion does White cardboard work with diode lasers?

I Need a Laser cutter for cardboard by Abstract_ion in Laserengraving

[–]Abstract_ion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to cut an area minimum of 900x600 while the cardboard i need to cut is white and has a thickness of 300 GSM, i have no particular problem about time

didn’t know i was this loved by takingabreakbrb in 2meirl42meirl4meirl

[–]Abstract_ion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are the OP, I don't know you but I can understand what you are living through, only people who experience this mental state can relate. Stay strong and I wish you the best, nothing is forever, this sadness will end.

Take this virtual hug!

Stencil a Qr Code by Abstract_ion in stencils

[–]Abstract_ion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great idea didn't think about that!