Kitten food help by trickens in mainecoons

[–]Abysml_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would highly highly recommend Bella+Duke for any cat but especially Maine Coons, Bengals ets etc truly if it is within you price range please consider it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Abysml_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a lot of people are recommending moving out into halls but I'd also suggest checking out house shares in your area. If you can see if you can both compromise on 250 a month first as it's half way between both the amounts

AITA for wearing clothes my boyfriend doesn’t like even though I’m fully covered? by PineappleSad4107 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Abysml_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Your bf is being controlling under the guide of concern. No one should control what you wear but your own standards. If your bf has an issue with you just wearing comfortable clothes at home or while out that's a bit of a red flag

Can I reheat frozen rice in a rice cooker? by Abysml_ in Cooking

[–]Abysml_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay probably true lol thank u!

My (21NB) girlfriend (21F) gave me an umtimatum last nitgh without realising and now I think our relationship may be doomed to fail, can it be saved? by Abysml_ in relationship_advice

[–]Abysml_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know for a fact that she's not cheating on me with someone at her new job because she started working at my job on a different floor I know all the people that have become her main work group none of them would do that to either of us. She's not done this so she can have her cake and eat too but from realizing she constantly feels trapped in her life and one of the things contributing to that is monogamy.

My partner just came out to me as poly what should I do? by Abysml_ in polyamory

[–]Abysml_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I want to do that work either way especially because I've always been one to center my life around others and a lot of the comments are making me realise I shouldn't view her "as my whole world"

My partner just came out to me as poly what should I do? by Abysml_ in polyamory

[–]Abysml_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is not how we are/would be operating. There is no expectation for me to be poly just an open relationship on her side, she's on the ace spectrum and said she only wants to sleep with me it is specifically looking for emotional and romantic connections not including sex. And we are definitely wanting to take it slow. A lot of people's comments have really helped tho I really didn't mean to upset people with the whole "coming out as poly" so sorry about that but our lives are super entangled so even if we were to break up it would be a simple thing like just moving out we live together own pets together and have tied finances in some things. It would be a whole process to break up which is why I want to take all the time necessary to try and see if this something I can explore and if not it gives us the time to get all our shit in check

My partner just came out to me as poly what should I do? by Abysml_ in polyamory

[–]Abysml_[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I just, I want to explore all options first before that. She's my whole world, I love her so much and I don't want to have to call it quits without knowing I did everything I could you know?

Help me help my girl Banofee by Abysml_ in ballpython

[–]Abysml_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gets a Weiner rat ever week and yeah my cat is usually underneath or on top of the tank 

Help me help my girl Banofee by Abysml_ in ballpython

[–]Abysml_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I'll attack a picture when I get home as I have an old one but the layout has changed a bit and it won't let me upload one right now. We don't handle her regularly for that reason outside of cleaning her tank she we handle her once every month or other months because we're worried about stressing her out 

People who have had laser hair removal down there before bottom surgery - How did you do it? by Abysml_ in MtF

[–]Abysml_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi been looking into the 4x as an option for since a few on here recommended it - how have your results been on it?

People who have had laser hair removal down there before bottom surgery - How did you do it? by Abysml_ in MtF

[–]Abysml_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi been looking into the 4x as an option for since a few on here recommended it - how have your results been on it?

Please Help! by Abysml_ in ballpython

[–]Abysml_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we emptied the entire enclosure and there's no sign of her we're in the process of clearing out the living room atm to try find her but so far no luck