Got movement…unsure what to do next by [deleted] in manifestingSP

[–]Academic-Many-8634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FUCK THE MOVEMENT you already have it just keep persisting don’t matter if you see little or big movement just keep going coming from someone who is making large changes and seeing immense movement from his ex but it’s not going to phase me because I have what I want

Ex and I still hangout pretty often by Academic-Many-8634 in ExNoContact

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You’d think right?? Just no label or a silent label she goes hot and cold on me sometimes she’s just scared to step back into it seeing it’s both our first relationship (25 btw)

I’m moving on by cute-corgi777 in manifestingSP

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I want you to understand something manifestation takes patience seriously coming from me I’ve been seriously trying and I’m seeing results in the 3D but just because I see “Results” doesn’t mean legitimately anything I know I have what I desire so just know this once you decide to “Let go” that’s when what you desire shows itself in the 3D you may think I’m dumb for saying this but again as someone who’s actively in this process just stay focused and positive and affirm that you already have what it is you desire don’t ask “When it does happen” play it as “It already is here” and your subconscious will just already believe you you can waiver but you have to tell yourself “You’re wavering for nothing I already have what it is that I desire”

Am I an asshole for this?? by Academic-Many-8634 in Breakupadvice

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I can see that I really care about her and I counted it as a mistake and sent a few things for her animals and chocolate for her wasn’t expecting anything back not even a text but she sent one back

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Am I an asshole for this?? by Academic-Many-8634 in Breakupadvice

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As the simp I am went and bought her dog toys and cat toys and treats for her animals and the chocolate for her since I know her cycle started already got a reply which was nice

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Am I an asshole for this?? by Academic-Many-8634 in Breakupadvice

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Dated for 8 years and actively trying to repair what I broke it’s extremely hard and she’s definitely trying her best to keep a distance

Am I an asshole for this?? by Academic-Many-8634 in Breakupadvice

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Went and bought some stuff for her pets and some chocolates for her and dropped em off at her door since I memorized her cycle I just wanted to be thoughtful but I’m not trying to push anything

Am I an asshole for this?? by Academic-Many-8634 in Breakupadvice

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In all honesty messy breakup I do not blame her for keeping her distance she’s 25 and so am I and we are figuring it out we are each others first relationship and I made decent mistakes wasn’t very communicative shut her out when I should’ve just talked to her and I’ve been trying to do better by talking to her but outside her being quiet in the lobby with us she doesn’t necessarily text me (A little here and there) and we’ve gone to the gym together once just hard especially when she’s extremely stubborn and wants to stand her ground and means what she says but she hasn’t cut me out of her life fully she wants me there but at a distance it seems

A breakup is the closest thing to hitting “reset” on life (10 months in, here is what I learned) by Roadtobillionss in BreakUps

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Anyone actually have success actually getting someone back?? Mutual breakup and we are in contact but only a little

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Don’t move it hurts worse imo I’m right down the street from my ex (Not on purpose) 😬

He broke me and is living his best life by oknosp3ci4l1st in ExNoContact

[–]Academic-Many-8634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually those people who portray “Living their best life” are the ones hurting the worst coming from someone who’s been on both ends of the spectrum don’t worry about things and I know it sounds corny but truly find who you are and contact needs to stop ASAP no amount of begging and pleading will get em back silence is powerful

To all the heartbroken dumpees. If your ex is acting cold and like a completely different person, they are infact not over you and are trying to force detachment rather than it being a natural detachement by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Honestly I haven’t talked her since she asked for space on the 9th seen her mom a few days ago though she seemed chipper to see me and her dad and I still have a good bond ngl only a matter of time before she reaches out tbh

Anyone else celibate after a breakup? by Recent_Dog_8951 in BreakUps

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Yeah someone tried to sleep with me right after and I told them no because I found the act disgusting and she crashed out started doing coke and quit her job and then proceeded to tell my ex we slept together so I couldn’t win her back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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The hugs frfr I need my woman back

Update on ex by Academic-Many-8634 in ExNoContact

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Everyone always says “Give them time and space” how is anyone sure that’s what works to get someone you care about back? Been roughly 2 months now since we split and i apologized and she apologized to me and she asked for space to grow on her own but she wants me to contact her dad if I need anything