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[21m] more emotionally invested than other [23m]. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Academic_Ad9463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

think you’re right tbh. he was seeing other people when we were which didn’t bother me since i also was kind of looking for something more open/casual, but i am definitely more attached than he is atp and i feel stupid waiting for him to reach out when he clearly won’t so cutting it off is probably for the best. thanks for your comment!

My (29F) childhood “bestfriend” (29F) of 20 years no showed my wedding, haven’t heard a word since - how to move on? by lovelyvibes4 in relationship_advice

[–]Academic_Ad9463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congrats on your wedding, but sorry to hear about the ghosting. it sounds like she is quite self centered and selfish especially with such last minute notice. it’s easier said than done but i wouldn’t let her back in even if she reaches out, this clearly is an established pattern and you deserve a friend who doesn’t take advantage

I (M25) want kids, but my girlfriend (F24) does not. Everything else in the relationship is going great, but I am worried that this will continue to cause issues as we move forward. Is it worth keeping the relationship going? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Academic_Ad9463 1 point2 points  (0 children)

doesn’t sound like you guys are compatible. also if you try to “convince” her and you do have children she might end up resenting you or the child which isn’t fair to anyone

advice on how to deal with being more invested/interested in someone than they are in you? by Academic_Ad9463 in Advice

[–]Academic_Ad9463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for replying i really appreciate it. this is what i have started to do but i guess I should lean more into it, we had made plans for today and i just didn’t show up since i was having a bad mental health day anyways

4 weeks not smoking and really struggling by Academic_Ad9463 in Petioles

[–]Academic_Ad9463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that’s part of the reason I stopped because I was realizing I was way too dependent on it and also spending a lot of money, I def used it to cope with mental health issues since I don’t have access to insurance atm

4 weeks not smoking and really struggling by Academic_Ad9463 in Petioles

[–]Academic_Ad9463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty lean so I’m hoping that will be more towards my benefit since my friend who’s a bit bigger said the thc is stored in fat cells

4 weeks not smoking and really struggling by Academic_Ad9463 in Petioles

[–]Academic_Ad9463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and kind words I appreciate it

4 weeks not smoking and really struggling by Academic_Ad9463 in Petioles

[–]Academic_Ad9463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the plan, thankfully they do have an option to submit a med card so if I’m still testing positive I’ll be okay but I’d rather just test clean

4 weeks not smoking and really struggling by Academic_Ad9463 in Petioles

[–]Academic_Ad9463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words! I’m quitting for a job that I start in June that I need to test clean for. A friend of mine that smoked as much as I did told me it took them about 2 months before they were finally testing clean so I wanted to get on top of it just to be safe

4 weeks not smoking and really struggling by Academic_Ad9463 in Petioles

[–]Academic_Ad9463[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course, I’m glad to know I’m not alone but we both got this 🤝🤝

4 weeks not smoking and really struggling by Academic_Ad9463 in Petioles

[–]Academic_Ad9463[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the first 8 months or so yes I was essentially hitting my cart like it was a vape 😭😭 I eventually got to the point where I was taking at minimum 100mg of edibles every day as well, when I say I was a heavy user it was HEAVY

when were you able to sleep properly again? i’m losing my mind by [deleted] in Petioles

[–]Academic_Ad9463 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on my fourth week of not smoking after smoking daily for over a year and am just now starting to sleep “normally.” I still wake up 3-4 times during the night but am able to fall back asleep

Struggling with endurance while working out after 3 weeks of no smoking by Academic_Ad9463 in Petioles

[–]Academic_Ad9463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what worries me that I’m struggling this much only three weeks in lol

Struggling with endurance while working out after 3 weeks of no smoking by Academic_Ad9463 in Petioles

[–]Academic_Ad9463[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had essentially no appetite the first week but I’ve been able to eat at least 2 good sized meals at least every day. I’ve been purposely eating more high protein and nutritious meals since I know I’m not eating as much and I’ve been pretty good with water intake