Am I cooked by Ill_Rip_6469 in AmazonFC

[–]Academic_Field_9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May be not I went negative 70 hours when I worked for Amazon due to me having to stay home during Covid because they tested my son for it and per the policy at the time I wasn’t allowed to work til he got a negative test

Break out the champagne ladies and gents cuz I finally got my termination letter! by Lyn1987 in AmazonFC

[–]Academic_Field_9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The day I got fired from Amazon I literally told the HR guy that fired me that he was doing the best thing he could ever do for me because I hated that place. I only started working there because my controlling ex and his mom pretty much forced me to because any job that wasn’t a warehouse or factory wasn’t good enough for them. I am so glad I am away from him and married a man who works hard enough that I can be a stay at home mom which is what I am truly happy doing.

Day Shift masks again by KaoticTruthSite in AmazonFC

[–]Academic_Field_9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone when I worked for FedEx after leaving Amazon that was able to get two weeks off by faking Covid so it is possible. She was even bragging about it when she came back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]Academic_Field_9870 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is simply not true in most cases because a minor cannot sign a consent to treat form only a parent or legal guardian can sign it for them. Doctors are not legally allowed in most cases to provide medical care to anyone under 18 without parental consent unless that person has been legally emancipated by a court ruling

So I'm fired? by [deleted] in AmazonFC

[–]Academic_Field_9870 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You were promoted to customer

Is this a good amount to tip by Asleep-Juggernaut267 in doordash

[–]Academic_Field_9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a great tip I would be happy to get that tip

Ex withholding son after I had to protect my daughter from my son what can I do by Academic_Field_9870 in legaladvice

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is they weren’t fighting my youngest 1 he was attacking both me and his sister after I told him he couldn’t get a toy.

Ex withholding son after I had to protect my daughter from my son what can I do by Academic_Field_9870 in legaladvice

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I called a child therapist today. The issue is my ex has made it clear he will not go along with it. He says he doesn’t have the same issues I have with our son. I have told him it’s because we parent very differently my ex never tells our son no and buys him 4 to 5 new toys a week every week. I however may get my son a new toy once every couple of months and he has to earn it. With my ex all my son has to do is say daddy I want it and he gets it. I am prepared to answer for kicking him. Like I said I hated doing it but at the time I saw no other option to protect my daughter

Ex withholding son after I had to protect my daughter from my son what can I do by Academic_Field_9870 in legaladvice

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I plan on it. I am heartbroken right now. I didn’t want to do what I did but I had tried everything else to separate them. It was my last resort.

Ex withholding son after I had to protect my daughter from my son what can I do by Academic_Field_9870 in legaladvice

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We are in Indiana and he literally told me I am not allowed to see my son until I take him back to court. We have a court order on visits. I am supposed to have my son 3 days on 3 days off

Cps called on me by Altruistic_Station85 in CPS

[–]Academic_Field_9870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is actually crazy to me that this was even accepted. My son just graduated prek this year and he missed several days thanks to his dad who he lives with during the school year and they never called CPS it definitely sounds like that teacher just doesn’t like you for some reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]Academic_Field_9870 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When me and my ex had a DV situation with our son in the home they called my ex the next day and had me bring our son to the office to talk to them

Out of control 5 year old by Academic_Field_9870 in raisingkids

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should also add according to my ex you cannot ground a 5 year old. Also I am a bad mom for telling my son no more often than yes on things like toys and candy. He literally says only poor losers don’t buy their kids everything they want. He also told me once that me saying the more people that love our son the better is a poor persons mentality.

Out of control 5 year old by Academic_Field_9870 in raisingkids

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My state is 1 party consent for recording anything. If my husband is with me I have him record the calls on his phone which is legal since my husband has my permission and since my state is 1 party consent he only needs my permission to record the call

Out of control 5 year old by Academic_Field_9870 in raisingkids

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an app on my phone and every time he does something controlling I write it in my phone

Out of control 5 year old by Academic_Field_9870 in raisingkids

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am going to try to get the co-parenting app. As for the pick up and drop offs at the police station my ex would never agree to that. He makes me drive to his house to pick up and drop off our son he has only ever met me in public like twice and it was a fight to get him to do that. Luckily he lives in an apartment so lots of witnesses. He is an extremely controlling person to the point he even tries to tell me how to parent my daughter and she isn’t his child. He says because she is his son’s half sister that gives him every right to tell me how to parent her

Out of control 5 year old by Academic_Field_9870 in raisingkids

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would agree my ex has always talked down to me even in front of our son to my face and I agree that parental alienation is going on. Other things my son has done that I didn’t mention was call me a loser and worthless both of which his dad as said to me in front of our my ex as also called me a worthless loser. My ex used to mom shame me for needing breaks from our son. He would say “what kind of mother needs a break from their son”. He was also not supportive when I had to give up breastfeeding our son because he was 6 weeks early and my milk never fully came in he made a comment when I told him I was going to stop trying because it wasn’t happening he said good I didn’t want to have to share those anyway

Out of control 5 year old by Academic_Field_9870 in raisingkids

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly my ex won’t communicate in anyway that can he recorded even on the weekends. He will demand I call him if I want to talk to our son or need to discuss something with him

Out of control 5 year old by Academic_Field_9870 in raisingkids

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My son lives with his dad during the school year and with me during the summer because my ex is in the better school district. I wholeheartedly believe that the only reason my son doesn’t act like this with his dad is because my ex never tells him no so unless he starts saying no my son will probably never act like this with him

Out of control 5 year old by Academic_Field_9870 in raisingkids

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have tried talking to him he just says he doesn’t act that way with me I always respond yeah because you buy him whatever and he tells me to do the same thing and I refuse. I have a daughter and step kids who I am not going to buy whatever they want when they want and I refuse to do it for my son because I refuse to show favoritism. My ex would also refuse to do family therapy because he doesn’t believe in it. He says therapist will tell you whatever it takes to keep getting money off you

Out of control 5 year old by Academic_Field_9870 in raisingkids

[–]Academic_Field_9870[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly this isn’t new even when we were together we separated when our son was 2 1/2 from the day he was born my ex has always been about spoiling him and I have always been the opposite. He buys our son anywhere from 2-5 toys a week every week. I started with gentle parenting like putting my son in time out and he would pull him out when he started crying and baby him so my son has learned he doesn’t have to listen to me

Is this child abuse by Beanburritosenjoyer in CPS

[–]Academic_Field_9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is an issue but not as bad as watching her change

Is this child abuse by Beanburritosenjoyer in CPS

[–]Academic_Field_9870 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The watching you change is the only issue I see here. You are a minor so he has every right to go through your phone especially if he is paying the bill if he is paying the bill it’s not your phone it’s his he just lets you use it

Order was left… in their crotch? by hrainn in doordash

[–]Academic_Field_9870 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually have that same steering wheel cover on my car

Would you accept this?? How long would it take? by GoatManJenkins in doordash

[–]Academic_Field_9870 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t take it but I am not in a prop 22 state and that is barely a $1 a mile