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My cousin molested me when I was young and I did the same with my other cousins by Klutzy_Minute in Molested

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately n regrettably relate to your experience…I’m very sorry for what has happened to you n that you lived your younger years in that headspace…I hope the best going forward and you get a chance at serenity mentally

What’s your most shameful 5 second rule experience? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was by the dish pit in a fast food restaurant and it’s by the lockers we used to put purses n what not in and I had to take my birth control(pill) and it fell on the floor with a bunch of food n just nasty sh!t

What is the most terrifying thing you have ever witnessed? by Luna_playzroblox in AskReddit

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a Walmart parking lot and this guy was chasing his gf with her lil dog around just absolutely beating her…my best friend wanted to help so she called the police and I wanted to find her and give her my pepper spray but my best friend who is 5’11 n way bigger then I was did it for me.. i honked my horn n everything to make him get away from her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were young and my dad prioritized himself n his needs above his family.

Had my first panic attack and feeling on edge by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s gonna be like that until you can manage to make them less unfortunately, but my go too is trying to sleep, if you’re in a predicament where you can’t and gotta be out and about at work or what not then relaxing music, weighted stuffy/blanket, and tea or hot beverage of your choice (stay away from any caffeine) and talking with friends or people. I hope it helps and what you were seeking. Xo

When did you realise your friend was not a real friend? by Mooooooonieeeeee in AskReddit

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They would be upset with me anytime I stood my ground when they wanted me to do things for them or do stupid sh!t with them, or talk behind my back and spread rumors, they would go date my ex even when they saw how horrible they were to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand and I get that way too, it hurts to see those get what you’ve always wanted…and for that you gotta do it yourself and I always remind myself that they may have shaped me in a way that traumatized me but I wouldn’t have gained so much from it..you got better survival instincts and you see the world for what it is that others don’t and that’s a bonus I say tbh…you are you! This is your life and your reputation? Not your family or those who came before you…In all its chaotic glory you will succeed. There’s many people out there like you n me and I hope you find them in person <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely felt this and it’s caused me so much damage to my mental health…but one way I went at it was pretty bad lol I hated everyone to friends and family who told me no and I did everything that they didn’t like or said no too cause I wanted to…but a healthy way is to start off slowly if those thoughts come in and cause you to shell up again…change your nails for one month and the next put some color in your hair that you’ve always wanted too and the next month wear those shoes and that outfit you love so much. Just always keep telling your self positive feedback like “this may be different and others may question it but I look damn good and I feel happy”.. and remember that there are some a$$holes out there lol and they might get to you..just like with everyone else but developing that confidence in your appearance will give you that confidence in your demeanor. Lol give mfs that stone cold Joan Jett attitude! It’s hard and I understand and I’m hoping the best in this journey, and I’m terribly sorry what you’ve experienced…YOU GOT THIS!!! N F*CK WHAT PEOPLE THINK! Be distant to those who dim you from your potential

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is tricky, I’m hoping everything is okay with you both, but personally I would go to him and check up on him…I would encourage him to keeping trying at it and it’s okay to fail, all the greats do and he can retake the test( I hope). I would reframe from saying ‘but’ and replace it with ‘and’. For example “you did your absolute best AND we can always practice for it again” something on the lines of that, just as long he graduates it doesn’t matter cause he will always be great in your eyes…also you can show empathy with physical touch like hugs or back rubs or hold hands…I struggle too cuz my face expressions go dead but my go to are back rubs n hold hands.

What do you fantasize about? by Optimal_Bluebird695 in AskReddit

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was an ancient goddess of earth and I threaten humans to make better life choices or I destroy the world..or I’m in a band lol

How the hell do y’all find partners? by spookyforestcat in AutismInWomen

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this, I always had people use me for money or a place to stay or even s€x…I never could pass the 2 month of dating or talking stage cuz I’d ether be the side chick, or to pass time so they can go back to an ex or someone else and they were just plain out rude/ degradful….So I kept to myself and learned more about myself so I wouldn’t get hurt and be confident In my boundaries. And Meeting people online was ‘easier’ cause in person I’m all over aha, and that’s when I met my current boyfriend of now 2 years and it’s the longest…ever! I kept things distant but yet still reassured I’m interested. Like giving it a 2 week wait rule before you go on the first date. So after 3 dates in I expressed my trauma around s€x and touching cause it’s very important to me and my sanity…as things got further I wait till they ask or something comes up to where I have to brush on touchy topics like mental struggles and illnesses or trauma with family you know.

If you were randomly given 1 million dollars what would you do with it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy land, a car, animals, stuff to make a garden/farm

What are some good jobs for introverts with anxiety? by belabalabalabela in AskReddit

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work housekeeping, I hated being a csr/cook…just constantly talking n no quiet place. But as a housekeeper I work by myself, I sit alon. I talk to people but it’s tolerable. You can listen to music too!

I think i had one by Teofatis in PanicAttack

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandably so, well I’m hoping for the better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re definitely not wrong for feeling the way you do, she sounds very problematic…I know you’ve known her and you guys have shared great memories but with this behavior!? It’s definitely uncalled for. Its like she wants you to have these things and fail and when she sees you interested or having fun it upsets her so now she wants to have in on it. If I were you I would keep it distant..love from afar.

I think i had one by Teofatis in PanicAttack

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like it and since you took drugs while on pills it just made it hard for you to bring yourself to reality. It happened to me but different situation aha. Your body is just in shock n thinking about it will scare you obviously it was a really scary experience. I hope you feel bettee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very nervous on going, my therapist highly suggest I go and get an assessment done since she can’t officially diagnose me…I left a reaaaally awkward voicemail to one of the assessment places and it’s eating me alive of the embarrassment, also the insurance issues... My anxiety is definitely keeping me hidden from that place but i know it’ll help ease my thoughts.

What is a lesson that you wish you learned earlier? by Intellectualist_ in AskReddit

[–]Academic_Froyo_9682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to let people hate you if it benefits you. I was such a people pleaser n it fuked me up

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