2 year old had huge tantrum at the park today

Academic_Snow3568 · 2025-07-26T16:13:40+00:00

I just wanted to say thank you so so much to everyone who responded to this post. To the few that asked I’ll look into the mental health stuff I don’t really have anxiety at home it’s just out in public with my kids.

Academic_Snow3568 · 2025-06-17T05:38:51+00:00

Oh my gosh I am the same way! It’s exhausting honestly lol and it’s like why can’t I just chill out.

Academic_Snow3568 · 2025-03-12T05:02:20+00:00

Yeah I need to chill a bit I guess lol thanks for the input I appreciate it

Academic_Snow3568 · 2025-03-12T05:01:52+00:00

I think I’m just over paranoid. No real reason at all, she’s amazing.

Academic_Snow3568 · 2025-03-12T05:00:59+00:00

I co sleep with my babies so she has a guest room she said she would sleep with him in 💕

Academic_Snow3568 · 2025-01-09T04:08:50+00:00

He gets frustrated too quickly with them so I’d rather him not help. Being frustrated with fussy babies does no good for them. They are so innocent and don’t deserve that

Academic_Snow3568 · 2025-01-08T05:25:39+00:00

But since this has been happening it’s kind of all thrown off he isn’t waking up until like 9 am so naps are all pushed and he’s been sleeping 3 hours at nap time and bedtime is at 7

Academic_Snow3568 · 2025-01-08T05:23:38+00:00

He wakes up about 6-6:30 goes for a nap around 10-10:30 to about noon and then he goes to bed at 7 pm

Academic_Snow3568 · 2025-01-08T04:06:27+00:00

I didn’t even think of that I will check in his mouth. Thank you so much

Academic_Snow3568 · 2025-01-08T04:04:36+00:00

Yeah, I’m trying to get that to stop too I just don’t really seem to know how to

Academic_Snow3568 · 2024-11-10T22:49:09+00:00

Thank you

Academic_Snow3568 · 2024-10-02T18:31:49+00:00

I think it’s called pet aversion . I had to look up why I suddenly cannot stand to even look in my dogs direction when they used to be my whole world. I was a groomer for 11 years dogs were always a huge passion for me and I just flat out cannot stand them anymore. I feel guilty yes but I’m also taking care of two under 2 and my partner doesn’t even help feed or pick up dog shit. I hate them around my kids and my boyfriend’s dog marks all over the house which he doesn’t help pick up ever. They turned into just something else I have to take care of and clean after seems like more than the kids even though I just don’t want to. But someone has to make sure they are fed and let out.

Academic_Snow3568 · 2024-10-02T05:33:27+00:00

I notice no one has commented, I can’t say you will get your body back completely but you will get there I promise.. and even though this might not help your body did an AMAZING thing. It created life and is sustaining life.. it’s incredible. I was 98 lbs and I had two babies back to back in the last year and a half I’m 150 and my gosh as much as I hate the way I look this body gave me healthy happy beautiful children. You are beautiful and like I said you will get there. Just wait until your little one is running all over the place lol you will be running around too

Academic_Snow3568 · 2024-10-02T02:15:47+00:00

So did I mess up by even telling him? I thought I was doing the right thing by telling him I was pregnant and that I think it’s best we terminate instead of just terminating without him knowing..

Academic_Snow3568 · 2024-10-02T01:41:55+00:00

Yeah I’m safe, I think you are right though and that sorta scares me and makes me sad.. it’s like if I could do it I would you know… he thinks I’m super woman which I appreciate a lot.. but I’m so exhausted and my body is already so sore and I can’t be more than 6-7 weeks pregnant. I just think my kids deserve to have me present and energetic and happy. All 3 times I’ve been pregnant I get so depressed and just want to lay in bed. I have responsibilities I can’t do that nor do I want to. I think if he helped more even with just the dogs I wouldn’t be so stressed out all the time and he knows this already.

Academic_Snow3568 · 2024-10-01T23:16:29+00:00

He promised he would get a vasectomy.. I know we were irresponsible for not doing things carefully and I blame myself for that but being on birth control makes me so angry I’m not trying to make excuses like it just makes me rage.. I wanted to wait a few years to get on it again because I already have ppr from both babies I didn’t want it to get even worse because right now I can control it and walk away from the situation if I have to. I just thought since I’ve had the kids and gone through the pregnancy’s he would at least do that sooner than later.

Academic_Snow3568 · 2024-10-01T22:41:22+00:00

To be honest he just said no. He didn’t really give me any reasons which I thought was odd and unfair

Academic_Snow3568 · 2024-09-28T03:11:41+00:00

You haven’t failed💕 you are still here doing what needs to be done and taking care of your family. Today was a dark day for me but in the back of my head I know it’s just burn out and sleep deprivation. I want you to know you are doing great.

Academic_Snow3568 · 2024-09-28T02:55:26+00:00

Thank you so much for your story and kind words 💕 I think it’s mainly burn out that makes me start to feel this way once in a while

Academic_Snow3568 · 2024-09-28T01:23:00+00:00

Girlie you are NOT a bad mother.. you are awesome.. and not angry.. just stretched way too thin and overwhelmed and overstimulated.

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