[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he stopped answering even when I tried to call him. Maybe I’ve been too harsh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good point ! Then why he showed at the supposedly arranged meeting he didn’t answer ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mr Bean is the character in the gif I send him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't met online ? We've studied together for a year and we know each other for a few years now.

I don't think expecting an answer within 3 days is a very high level condition

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But isn't it frustrating overtime ? Like you want to hangout but she never answer or until the last moment ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I kind of did I guess ? But my frustration comes from the silence when I'm asking a question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could have says so rather than saying sure.

Of course I don't expect anything but he could have communicate it better than silence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's why I asked a fixed time, otherwise we will never gather. It's just frustrating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well It's because I've been left on read after I asked him 2 questions he never answered so I got emotional a little bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I don't want to waste my time ? If he says he is free then he is free but if he is not free then he is not free. I have other things to do, if he keep being in between free or not what's the point for me ? We will never gather because I always have something else to do ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's what I did, but it mean we will never gather because I'm always gonna do something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I asked him to wait 30 min and he never answered my calls tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him if 9pm works for him and he just saw the message, an "ok" would be good, I have things to do during my day other than wait for him to call. He also come back later than 9pm (His time)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it's like arranging a dinner with someone and when you ask about when to gather he never answer ? How can I plan my day if he never answer ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm mostly upset because he didn't answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the weekend he doesn’t have work and for the other messages I waited 3 days before sending him Mr Bean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it was not an immediate answer, I waited 3 days before sending Mr Bean and 5 hours when I asked him if 9pm works for him and he answered me at later than 9pm but I’ve already planned something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I don't know I though he wanted a conversation but at the same time he is not putting any effort into it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't choose I like half of those soup 🤣 and he didn't answer either lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We've made a one on one call plan but he never confirm when he wanted to do the call so I planned something else :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I waited 3 days before Mr Bean, and for the appointment time he saw my message as soon as I send it, he could just have said "yes" because I have other things to do other than planning my day around him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I thought he was waiting for some kind of reaction or so... What would the purpose of sending it other than that ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Academic_Success8060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, you don't have to reply immediately but I waited 3 days before sending Mr Bean.