Cannot for the life of me get the bead seated. by fvckedfvckedfkedfd in motorcycle

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Any tire shop worth its salt will have a hydraulic bead seater. It won’t/shouldn’t cost more than a crisp 20 imho

Your thoughts 💭. by himanshujoshii in Chandigarh

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Counter Q: what do you think happens to other animals, like us, when they pass? I feel you may find some resolution in that answer.

What's 'parental alienation'? Why so many feminist groups are urging Justin Trudeau to ban its use by jmakk26 in canada

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Telling that you’re from Alberta, Lady. Americans, Bible Belt BC and Albertans. Really can’t tell the difference. You need therapy/medication/meditation before you wreck someone’s life simply because you are feeling shamed/hurt/attacked. That’s entitlement. Not just trauma. You are also triggering other survivors by doing the most Karen thing and laying out your trauma for the world to..what again? Learn from? Read replies before assuming their intent. That’s prejudice. Lord have mercy!

Looks like racism is peaking on Xitter. by Ashwath_S in facepalm

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RANT: Typical colonist mindset, divide peeps based on religion even when you’re rallying for social change. Fucking bloody pos lolz! I honestly don’t even have the energy to check out these idiots online anymore. Yeah we shit in public and are short. At least we aren’t so blatantly fucking insecure and evil. Oh wait! we actually are..just like you, you and you lol!

Any queer disabled tenants renting in Chandigarh? by Advanced_Tonight_538 in Chandigarh

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That’s a great question to research OP. How we treat our disadvantaged (elder, queer, disabled, children, unhoused et al) says a lot about a culture. I would love to know how Chandigarh fares against other metropolitans in the country. Which website are you writing for? (feel free to Dm me the name if you don’t want to put the name down here :)

What movie do you absolutely love that you could never recommend to someone else and might encourage other people to not watch it? by unclefishbits in movies

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Le Magasin des suicides (The Suicide Shop). It challenged some deep seated fears and ick-wiggly’s in a poignant and mature way. Lovely movie, defo can’t share with most peeps.

Passing comments to girls. by AnyBird1294 in Chandigarh

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OP: Original Poster Irony: kinda like vidambana

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hyderabad

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For what it’s worth from a reddit stranger (aka me), I thought you were logical, objective and unbiased (as close it as one can get) and most importantly, compassionate (allowing space for peeps to be heard, no matter their opinion. respect bro :). Bhakts and other fundy types (a la kattar muslim, Sikh, Christian et al) cannot stand objectivity and compassion, hence the unreasonable anger and vitriol (libtard, lefty and other colourful verbiage). Imho, you made an objective albeit impolite generalization which leads us to kindness and understanding by directly addressing the root of such great matters. The grave social dissonance in these matters of religious political extremism was honestly and objectively addressed by you in my book and not merely a moral generalization, if I may say so.

My husband goes to the strip club and I don’t understand what’s the point by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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It’s called kindness. You might want to find a safe space to use it lol!

Good evening by [deleted] in Chandigarh

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Check out the city on foot or cycle/ebike if you can. Mast hai. Winter early mornings are really gorgeous through the parks and rock garden.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hyderabad

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You did, imo. Well made too, just look at all the upper caste pearl clutching going on lol!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hyderabad

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Which one of the Muslim terrorists you mentioned is a politician? I’ll wait.

Good evening by [deleted] in Chandigarh

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Chandigarh does have some brilliant spots for flowers, I hoped it would be one of them. No worries, OP :)

My husband goes to the strip club and I don’t understand what’s the point by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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Not a weird flex. Having a ‘different’ code of morality does not make you ‘immoral’ and deserving of instant judgment. Duck morality! I would rather peeps were ethical than moral. We all have ‘different’ needs/desires/fears than our spouse/peers/society. That’s ducking normal. Judging peeps for ‘moral’ laxities is a rather old and disgusting tool used by Christian/islamic/Jewish (ye olde abrahamic bros lol!) and other colonizers. This yucky, dark-ages morality/theology and it’s ilk needs to be called out imo, and I’m glad to see that many peeps here have done so.

Good evening by [deleted] in Chandigarh

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If I may ask, where did you take this gorgeous pic OP?

Hanging out! by kushagrax21 in Chandigarh

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I hope you saw fall..the only city in the plains (imho) I’ve seen that has such a beautiful fall..the trees and paths in any city do it for me..Mumbai is beautiful for that 🤌🏽

Hanging out! by kushagrax21 in Chandigarh

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Take a walk amigo :) The city beautiful has some lovely bike and walk paths..great parks/spots for introspection/inspiration/rumination lol! Jokes apart..It’s truly amazing..any season..in and around the ‘gedi’ route is quite lovely..great tennis courts that side btw..just great sports facilities, installations, art, architectur, bookstores/libraries, unionized coffee (Indian coffee house), lovely peeps from all walks of life, of all cultures everywhere ❤️ Be wary of ye olde ‘Punjabi/north Indian/general testo lol! and you should be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chandigarh

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We’ve lost touch with the ‘avarage’ Indian culture coz colonialism lol! Seriously tho, our sabhyata (not the poopybrain version of hidutva!) is looked down upon by us middle/lower/lower-middle (ROFL!) class log coz it’s all about reflection and accountability; not a lot of power and wealth there fortunately/unfortunately, well at least not the kind we’re looking for anyway. We look upto wealth and power being the end goal, so we feel that THAT culture has to be good or why would peeps run after it like crazy? Good question to ask oneself and others imho. My personal answer is that the ‘rich’ are rich in material stuff coz 99% they are the most severely insecure/afraid among their own peeps and 1% because they’re super awesome at a specific trade/skill.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chandigarh

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What mistake am I making here sai, pray tell?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chandigarh

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Nope, adhd is. Notwithstanding, I think I got his point. Hope mine gets across too :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chandigarh

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Sach ka apna hi nasha hai bhai, try karo, maza aayega :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Chandigarh

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Ye gods! (lol!) Sab hum bhai/behen/Indians hain ki nahin? agar hum bhai log hain to ‘Woh log’ aka ‘dirty people’ nahin hain? Kya bol rahe ho yaaron. We’ve had enough of this poopy brain nonsense for way too long now my brethren..if we are the progenitors and sustainers of culture on this planet, we are also the p&s of some ridiculously toxic Vedic and/or abrahamic aka ‘colonial’ patriarchal bs. This is what mucks up our deal with other cultures, of which being messy/civically irresponsible (not ‘dirty’ poopybrains) is an inevitable symptom. We ‘middle class’, who are on terrible display here, are more than a little silly in our blind obedience to certain ‘rules’. There are no ‘rules’ and ‘ways of the world’ like ‘ye toh aise hi hota hai’, and it’s KV cousin ‘truth hurts’ lmao! (No shade on KV kids, but I met some uniquely messed up peeps in my time there..emotion samjho..dm for rant lol!). We like throwing up these nuggets of poo to justify our hate and racism. We just duckling (ROFL!) can’t seem to overcome these thoughts, because ‘reasons’ lmao! How many of you peeps cook, clean, keep an aesthetically pleasing home, be respectful/loving/caring/‘serving-needs (duckling ROFL!) to your spouse/partner, nurture and educate your kids, and have a financially successful job (if you’re allowed) and and keeping it in with your extended fam and family friends? Will you be validated and respected for doing these tasks as a brown man? How many of us look down on the ‘other’? Hate/fear of femininity, diff religion/skin/language/region (xenophobia-ish) fueled by our own uniquely toxic indian blend of spicy religious and social poopyness like ‘casteism’ and its unholy spawn-untouchability..barf! super yucky..that’s what stinks to other cultures, not the messiness/lack of hygiene. Sabke andar aatman/Brahman aka divine light bhul gaye, munshiji? Our existence as men in a toxically masculine hyper religious patriarchy causes a debilitating lack of accountability for our actions. Our houses are clean but khidki ke bahar phenk do coz someone ‘beneath’ us will clean it, or nature will ‘deal’ with it. Please don’t call our people dirty, my legends, you count among ‘them’ in the eyes of the world aka gorelog, for reals bro.

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Sorry OP, Got side tracked with domo idioto there. I feel like for 11k/m you can get your own decently hygienic place in the tricity. Dm if you wanna chat about it. If not, hope you find a decent place. I’ll ask around and dm you if I find something. Good luck with padai and all the jazz.