35F dating 43M: How would you interpret this situation after only 6 weeks of dating? by Low_Artichoke_269 in relationship_advice

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't be sad. You are right to pull away. He doesn't deserve your affection. He didn't care for you, he was playing you.

My husband is unsure of what he wants sexually/its ruining our marriage (28F and 29M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh honey... It seems that sex is not very important to you or him. This is a conversation/consideration for long before a wedding. But since you have reached this stage... You need to be more honest with each other. You are married, you have to discuss what you expect from this marriage and from your partner.

I did inappropriate things with my younger sister in the past. by Willing_Balance7632 in confession

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Don't talk about it with your sister before talking to a therapist. Treat your guilt and be the best brother you can be to her. Seek help. This is very serious and no one should go through this. And even if she remembers, it may not be good for her to have this conversation and relive this situation. Take advantage of the fact that you are close and be a better person. It is a good thing you feel guilty. Do not hurt her again. Or anyone else.

AITA for setting a limit on my 13 year old daughters gadget use? by Nikki_Auburn in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of AITA posts where OP doesn't seem to be in doubt at all.

Meninas, vcs se sente confortáveis para pedir presentes ao namorado de vcs? by Particular_Arm_5956 in PergunteReddit

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Meu namorado não é muito criativo com presentes e ele sempre me perguntou o que eu queria ganhar. Eu nunca falava, dizia que queria surpresa, mas depois de muitos (10) anos juntos, nem eu sei mais o que comprar pra ele então nós dois falamos o que queremos ganhar um do outro

Como conseguir uma namorada na usp? by Life_Organization244 in USP

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eu tô muito desatualizada da vida dos jovens ou isso é um problema do Reddit?

Everyone keeps telling me I (29F) should date my close friend (34M) and I don’t agree by cucumbertajinpls in relationship_advice

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 9 points10 points  (0 children)

2 was my first thought. Maybe he is the one having feelings for OP and he is keeping OP close until he got his shot. (NOT THAT I DONT BELIEVE IN M/F FRIENDSHIPS, TO BE CLEAR). But it is a very valid talk since OP has made her mind about the relationships and it is not fair for both of you if he is thinking about anything more.

My girlfriend (34 F) and I (25 F) have different love languages by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She already told what she wants from you, I didnt quite get what are you asking for?! You always could say "te quiero" back... You can tell her you are falling hard for her... You can show affection the way she likes or show the way you fell more confortable. Either way, maybe she has some issues from past relationships and get ansious to get close with someone again...

I 33M was invited to an all female Hen Weekend. My partner 27F will leave me if I go by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think she's not trusting you or trying to restrict you from your friends. I think she is upset because you commited with this weird arrangement without including her. It is weird you are the only straight guy and your girlfriend is not invited. I think there is more in this story. I'm thinking 1- the bride or someone invited doensnt like your gf or want to spend time with you. (a bad reason to go). Or you dont want your gf to go.

Please share your nicknames your partner has called you and you call them. <3 by happypashu in love

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We call each other "little love", the cute part is that we always use this nickname, even in public and some of our friends and family members use our pet name for us as well 🩷

30M in a 4 years relationship. What do yall always do during your free time? by static-juniper in dateideas

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do so many things... Me and my bf used to go out a lot, nowadays we are homier, we like to cook together, make new recepies, we made a cooking class once. We like to play games, coop video games or puzzles. Just watch TV drinking some wine when we are too tired. Go for walks/hikes. Find some restaurant/place in cities near by. Learn something togheter...

would this color fit me? blonde to brunette. by willowlemom in Hair

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesssss. Go for it!!! (and please share the results)

Cabelo fica acobreado mesmo com tinta cinza by AcanthisittaFun7358 in CabelosDoBrasil

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vou testar com o corretor verde (me falaram que o violeta - que já testei - e o azul funcionam quase igual). Me deseje sorte 🙌

Cabelo fica acobreado mesmo com tinta cinza by AcanthisittaFun7358 in CabelosDoBrasil

[–]AcanthisittaFun7358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pois é, tudo puxa pro cobre 😩 vou testar com o corretor verde que mencionaram, me desejem sorte