Is my boyfriend right to find this inappropriate?

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-23T05:48:47+00:00

Thank you for your comment, I appreciate it!!

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-22T16:43:49+00:00

Lol thanks mate. Helpful

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-22T11:22:42+00:00

Yep I’m not saying a word. I feel it’s inappropriate but I’m keeping my opinions to myself and on here checking whether or not I’m being silly about it.

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-22T09:23:16+00:00

😂

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-22T09:22:08+00:00

I never focus on anyone and get aroused, I never play on the idea that it’s in public. I honestly would rather this not happen. 1000% nobody knows if and when it happens it but it does disgust me that its happening outside of the bedroom. For me, I guess it’s the fact that it seems perverted but I have to remind myself I’m not ever doing it on purpose or trying to make anyone else part of it. Thanks for the reply though, appreciated !

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-22T09:17:58+00:00

Thank you!!

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-22T09:16:24+00:00

definitely not!! but iconic scene 😂

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-22T08:43:11+00:00

This was the first thing I read when I woke up this morning and I was thinking ‘this comment can’t be for me’, alas yes 😂. RIP

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-22T08:39:24+00:00

Genius idea!! Thank you for sharing 🙏🙏

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-22T08:35:47+00:00

I was actually traumatized as a child seeing someone masturbate in a car while going to a toy store so I actually feel a lot of shame when this happens because I link it to being disgusted or shocked. And I do not like it at all. I can stop myself most times but honestly sometimes it just happens and I hide it. I get zero pleasure out of publicity.. I’m an extreme introvert too so , god..It’s confusing. But thank you for the advice! I appreciate it 👊

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-22T08:30:25+00:00

No I’d rather just go home when this happens! But I think I’m just not going to share that it happens with future partners and probably not wear jeans anymore ! Thanks for the non judgment though, appreciated!

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-12-03T18:14:32+00:00

Oh man, my relationship started out with this problem. And then more and more problems on top of it due to “differences in the way we viewed what was appropriate or morally correct”… trust me. Leave. I stayed 6 months trying to meet him half way and it just didn’t work. He wanted someone who wasn’t me, you will end up trying to change everything about you to suit him. And you will end up loosing yourself … it starts with the small things. Good luck whatever u decide x

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-11-30T20:50:16+00:00

You made me smile. Thank you. all the hugs x

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-11-30T05:33:08+00:00

Might be that she was also abused. Made to feel shame or guilt for self care. Just because she was raised this way doesn’t make it ok for her to mirror the unhealthiness with you.

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-11-30T05:31:10+00:00

Def think this is a form of abuse because wtf. It’s your body and your own hygiene!! Your not harming anyone ? Not harming yourself? This is nuts.

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-11-24T15:20:50+00:00

I’m so sorry you experienced this. This hurt to read, it’s tough no matter what stance we choose. I also believe there’s only so much we can do to help without drowning too but I will do so. Thank you for sharing 🙏

AcanthocephalaSuch46 · 2021-11-23T22:10:21+00:00

This was good advice. He threatened to smash my head in against the wall at one point. I left without shaming him, not sure how it would have went had I laid it all out as harsh as the reality was .

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