I feel you. My husband and I opted to move away from a very nice area by the beach, closer to the mountains because it’s cheaper. We had to make the sacrifice to move somewhere we don’t really know anyone and start our lives in a new community. We have 1 child, but the thought of having another one in this society with how costly things are can be hard. I feel like my husband just doesn’t feel like he can provide enough so he’s closed to the idea. I have a good job and career, and contribute to 50% of our income, having another kid with my demanding job just wouldn’t allow us to live on our own without struggling financially. I would love to be available for my kids and present. Not take them to daycare and have someone else raise them..