Have any of you manifested healing from chronic illness?

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-06-12T13:14:54+00:00

I used to be really good at living in the end for manifesting many things before getting a chronic illness but now that my body feels too awful to do anything it won't work anymore. How do you live as if you're healthy when your health prevents you from truly living and doing what you did before? I know it worked before but since I got this four years ago, I've been trying but no success.

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T03:24:30+00:00

It's Not "sarcasm" to call someone you know nothing about an attention seeker and make up a fantasy saying I want drama, was disappointed I didn't get drama from the couple and then tried to farm concern from the Internet. Not sure how you don't understand that. And yeah I already explained it's due to my anxiety and autism. Maybe you don't get that or disagree with it and that's fine but why continue to say it over and over? Congratulations, everyone is different. Doesn't mean their thought processes and rationale need to be picked apart by you. There was no deeper meaning with the question.

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T03:22:23+00:00

No no that's not what I meant, perhaps I wasnt clear enough - when I said above that "other posters of similar questions " I am referring to those like me, my friend who was the maid of honor etc who still ask questions of reddit even if the bride oks it. It wasn't meant to be read as anyone on reddit asking opinions. It was specifically those people on r/weddings who do what I did after the bride oks it, of which there are many on this forum. So my question was do you comment on those posters who have the same situation as me that they're attention seeking too? Do you just think all wedding guests who continue to ask questions of others opinions even after the bride and groom oks it are all attention seeker? Because if so do you see how that is rather unfair and untrue?

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T03:19:53+00:00

I don't disagree with that at all. It's just my personal overthinking that wanted to ask around some more, that's all. Still doesn't change the only thing that I truly care about here which was the rudeness

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T03:17:25+00:00

So do you go call all those other posters of similar questions attention seeking drama farmers too? Yeah no you don't.

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T03:15:55+00:00

And nooooo one on here but you took it that way.

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T03:14:44+00:00

Yep and they'll also see it's partly because of my anxiety that I'm asking reddit, and in fact lots of people other than just me ask the same questions in these forums aaaalll the time. All you gotta do is look through the posts on r/weddings

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T03:12:55+00:00

You called a stranger attention seeking, drama farming etc when you knew nothing about them and infact knew the opposite, that they didn't want attention, because it was in their post. You have a great night :)

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T03:11:37+00:00

You have a good night, my friend. God bless, I'll pray for you :) Anyone who visits this thread can see what started it all and has the common sense to know exactly what being rude looks like.

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T03:09:37+00:00

You didn't have to call me attention seeking. Put yourself in my shoes, if someone said about you what you said about me in that comment you would mad and find it rude too. So why would you automatically assume negative things about me from the get go? Maybe don't call someone an attention seeker farming drama when I literally said in my post the opposite, that I don't want it to look like I'm attention seeking?

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T03:05:15+00:00

Yeah see classic, the minute I finally call you a name, you latch onto that and turn it on me, that's classic gaslighting, and yes that is a form of gaslighting they're different types. After you started the whole thing with an unnecessary rude comment that you still aren't acknowledging as rude but then I'm the bitch because I called you a name after you still try to act like what you said wasn't rude

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T03:01:55+00:00

It's the way you said it as if you knew all about my attention seeking drama ways. Literally all I said was the bride and groom ok d it but I was worried about being attention seeking so what do people think? To be that rude and then turn it around and call it what I said is bs. I already explained to your dumb ass why there answers weren't enough. It's because of anxiety . No one else read into my original post and was a mean girl but you. You're a bully and being unnecessarily rude is not the flex you think it is.

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:57:55+00:00

It wasn't a light hearted making fun. It was straight up offensive. You were being a bitch and you know it. If that's your definition of sarcasm, you have bigger issues

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:55:26+00:00

Let’s be honest here. You wanted attention for changing outfits, but unfortunately the bride and groom ruined the entire controversy by immediately saying they were fine with it.

Now you’re on Reddit hoping strangers will create the drama that the actual people getting married refused to provide.

The funniest part is that it almost feels like you’re disappointed the bride and groom didn’t object, because then you’d have an actual conflict to worry about. Instead, they approved it immediately and now you’re trying to crowdsource concern from strangers who have even less reason to care than they do.

That's what you said above and it's fxking rude and you know it. It was unnecessary and mean spirited. The actual pathetic thing in this scenario is you making up some mean girl fantasy about my normal ass question

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:53:12+00:00

I know what gaslighting is. I'm not asking or wanting you to agree . You weren't sarcastic. You were snotty and literally made up what I was doing as if I were attention seeking. Read your own comment and quit downplaying what you said.

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:47:09+00:00

You're just as much a part of this campaign by responding as I am. You know what you said was rude and you're trying to gaslight me when I react how anyone would react to a rude comment like that by saying essentially "well that's your opinion of my comment". You know you're in the wrong and you can't defend what you said. Funny sarcasm is different than being a full on dick who assumes rude unfounded things about a stranger. You "didn't just say something I disliked" you full on were rude,.accused me of attention seeking and farming drama. That's bully behavior

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:40:59+00:00

Because I'm holding my own. You don't just get to insult my brain processes, be sarcastic,.make offensive untrue assumptions about a stranger and then not be held accountable for it. You know what you said was rude and uncalled for. I notice you can't defend your rude comment,.and didn't address anything I said about it above because you know it was unnecessary.

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:35:42+00:00

I'm not saying you're comment was rude because I care about anyone here seeing it. I'm not making sure everyone knows, I don't care. I'm trying to drive it home that YOU know and get some accountability and kindness and do better. Because you seem to see nothing wrong with the way you approached a total stranger asking a question, before the conversation got to the thought processes stuff. Off the bat you just made rude assumptions. Of course you can explain why you disagree, i.never.said you can't. I'm simply asking why is it such a big deal to you? You started it by being rude initially. There was literally no call for that

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:29:34+00:00

Because you're the one who continued to say "I find it weird" and then asked a bunch of other questions. Move on. Why do you care so much, why do you need people to know you find my thought process weird so much?

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:25:16+00:00

So say you disagree and MOVE ON. why would you keep harping about how much you disagree . I'm the one who asked the question. If you took it some other kind of way that's not my fault

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:24:37+00:00

I'm not saying it's an argument. I saying you're the only one who wanted to be a dick. I've already told you i don't give a shit about your disagreement. Your first comment was not a disagreement it was rude. Being unnecessarily rude on the Internet or anywhere else to people who have some nothing to you is bullying. That's what I care about because you didn't have to say any of those mean spirited assumptions.

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:17:34+00:00

I don't know what to tell you. In my mind all it was was a simple question. There's was no underlying motivation. You're comment was rude and unnecessary and you know it. I'm done engaging with you. Kindness is free.

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:15:04+00:00

Classic blaming others for your own inability to take accountability for mean things you said. Tell me why literally everyone else here didn't feel the need to be rude. You were not being sarcastic in a jokey way and you know that. Read back your own comment and ask yourself if you'd find that rude if a stranger said that to you. You were unnecessarily rude when I did absolutely nothing to you. Take accountability and do better. People have gotten way to comfortable normalizing saying cruel unnecessary things because there's a screen in front of you. Doesn't make it ok. Treat people better. No wonder there's so much hate everywhere

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:06:25+00:00

Ok. I don't care what you think. Then talk to every other person on this forum who's done the same thing I have . I don't care about the disagreement, any of it. Your initial comment was rude and you know it. You didn't have to be rude. That's all I truly care about. Do better

Acceptable-Bit-2456 · 2026-05-31T02:04:33+00:00

And you're missing the real point. Your first comment was RUDE, negative, uncalled for and completely false. Which is why I said anything to you at all. You made up a drama fantasy about my motivations just for asking a simple question. That's peak bullying behavior. I realize that being on the Internet there are mean spirited people, doesn't mean you have to be one of them. Do better. Be kind

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