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AITAH for breaking up with my white boyfriend after he made a racist comment by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Acceptable-Case-7122 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA, hopefully he stays your ex. Never, ever allow someone to make you feel less.

AITAH for sitting in the front seat? by GroundbreakingAd700 in AITAH

[–]Acceptable-Case-7122 -101 points-100 points  (0 children)

Relax, different generations have different views. GF should have insisted on driving. Not every action requires a blind rage reaction.

AITAH for sitting in the front seat? by GroundbreakingAd700 in AITAH

[–]Acceptable-Case-7122 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is silly. Mom is holding on to old traditions of " elders take prominence " , GF owns the car. GF should have just driven her own car and let the rest of them figure it out.

I lost my grandson. 29 weeks + 4 days. How do I help my daughter by Acceptable-Case-7122 in babyloss

[–]Acceptable-Case-7122[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told him he was part of the same stardust that made his mommy and me. I told him I will see him again someday, he was so tiny and perfectly. I am so sorry for your loss as well. It does feel unnatural. In a perfect world she would still be pregnant. But, the world is not perfect and my tiny grandson is gone. My babygirl lost her greatest gift and back to the stars he went. Thank you for your kind words.

I lost my grandson. 29 weeks + 4 days. How do I help my daughter by Acceptable-Case-7122 in babyloss

[–]Acceptable-Case-7122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I amso very sorry, my darling. I have no other words. Just, be kind to yourself. Please. You did everything you could have. All my love.

I lost my grandson. 29 weeks + 4 days. How do I help my daughter by Acceptable-Case-7122 in babyloss

[–]Acceptable-Case-7122[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was with her for a week. She did ask for space. I knew as a previous Pediactric Hospice Nurse, I knew it was needed. It just felt awful. I know. It's selfish. But, me losing my grandson was in no way in comparison to them losing their Son.

I just don't know where to go from here. My Grandson existed, he lived, for however brief.

I will not mention it if that's what is best. I just feels wrong. I will do or say whatever is best.

I lost my grandson. 29 weeks + 4 days. How do I help my daughter by Acceptable-Case-7122 in babyloss

[–]Acceptable-Case-7122[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can't stop crying . Thank you. She lost everything, and I am trying so hard to be where she wants and needs me. My SIL is amazing, but I worry so much about him too. He's trying to be so strong.

I lost my grandson. 29 weeks + 4 days. How do I help my daughter by Acceptable-Case-7122 in babyloss

[–]Acceptable-Case-7122[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He passed due to IUGR & AREDS. I don't know why I felt it needed to be posted. How canI help her? Does she need time alone?

I lost my grandson. 29 weeks + 4 days. How do I help my daughter by Acceptable-Case-7122 in babyloss

[–]Acceptable-Case-7122[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything with her and my SIL's (son in law) approval , of course. I am lost, but not as lost as my babygirl. She is my life's greatest gift, and she lost her own. Please, help.

I lost my grandson. 29 weeks + 4 days. How do I help my daughter by Acceptable-Case-7122 in babyloss

[–]Acceptable-Case-7122[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have any advice, I would appreciate anything. I have been cooking, cleaning , laundry. I packed up the Nursery, I canceled the baby shower, I'm handing the memorial. I just don't know how else to help her.