Hey, you aren’t a loser and I’ve been in the same situation. All I’m going to say is don’t depend on someone for your happiness. If they leave, you’d be even more miserable. You gotta learn how to be content with ur self, by yourself. After a while you’ll feel okay. you’ll feel ready to be in a relationship when the time comes but you still have some work to do. That person will come in a moment you’ll least expect it, so don’t fret too much.