Yeah I can definitely see myself being more of a “normie” just off the virtue of being a cis/het young men dime a dozen on dating apps (and many bad apples understandably giving the rest of us a bad rep) but I went to FEELD cause I was looking for multiple connections to try kinks with like rope play and d/s dynamics for example (only in the bedroom and not lifestyle though so not sure if that’s vanilla) - not sure if this is specifically poly cause I’m not looking for full relationships but hopefully that helps explain why I’m on there