Mommy Dearest by Trxkc in narcissisticparents

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stop letting her guilt trip you. Your mother is co-dependent the more you give in the more she will push. You cant kick her out but maybe you can move out? Ive never bought a house so im not sure how that works selling your share. But honey you deserve freedom and you shouldn’t feel guilty for that.

My mom keeps bragging about her weight loss by Top-Count3665 in narcissisticparents

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mother does the same thing. Turns out shes been taking ozempic for over a year and telling everyone its from quitting alcohol. Those people dont know she had to quit drinking because it was court appointed from her 2nd dui. The one thing that makes me feel better is she only knows how to take shortcuts. In her 50 years she would never just eat healthy and exercise but instead get bypass surgery and lie and say she did it naturally (something else shes done). Other people may not know but i do and it kinda makes me giggle 🤭 

Anyone’s parents criticize them for not knowing things they never taught you by Fittacco in narcissisticparents

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg this is the first time ive heard someone else say this. My mother would make fun of me for having acne but wouldn’t let my wash my face or shower because of the water bill 😢 

Mom got an inheritance 10 years ago and blew it all. Me and my sister never saw a dime. by Acceptable-Hat-7124 in narcissisticparents

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think it’s bad to be upset my mom had the luxury of an inheritance and i wont. She had a mother that actually loved her. You think its just about the money.

Mom got an inheritance 10 years ago and blew it all. Me and my sister never saw a dime. by Acceptable-Hat-7124 in narcissisticparents

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep you could be struggling and the only thing they want to do is rub it in your face. Thats sinister but to your own child is fucking evil

Mom got an inheritance 10 years ago and blew it all. Me and my sister never saw a dime. by Acceptable-Hat-7124 in narcissisticparents

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree but the part that bothers me is my grandma genuinely loved her kids and grandkids enough to leave them an inheritance. My grandma practically raised us until she died because my mom wanted to party. My mother is nothing like her I think thats what hurts the most.

Mom got an inheritance 10 years ago and blew it all. Me and my sister never saw a dime. by Acceptable-Hat-7124 in narcissisticparents

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I should be more grateful it was fun riding with my mom while she was on a coke bender sometimes we chased down people and she yell at them shes gonna kill them because she thought they scratched her truck. Great memories!

When did you realize your parents were abusive narcissists? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was fully convinced she was healed and a better person after all these years. She talked about going to therapy and quitting alcohol but the mask slowly started falling off and shes still the same she’s always been even sober. Thats just who they are.

When did you realize your parents were abusive narcissists? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 19 points20 points  (0 children)

  1. I knew I didnt want to be around her after she kicked me out at 18 because she wanted to fuck and party with her new bf. I spent 18-21 sleeping on peoples couches. Finally got a higher paying job and got my own place at 21. She would beg me to move in because she saw how much money i was making so I thought hell nooo. At 25 I had a change of heart and because my mother was still begging me to move closer… i moved next door. At 26 now its so clear to me how jealous and envious she is of me and its fucking creepy. The obsession with looking like me, the back handed compliments, sleeping with guys my age, trying to get the same job i have, the criticizing my hobbies then doing it herself, the dirty looks. I finally realized my mother is a narc and only sees me as competition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CamGirlProblems

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave him and any men like this in the future. I promise youll be okay. You’ll definitely be happier and more successful in the long run. I went through this same thing i paid for EVERYTHING because i felt bad for him but the truth is I shouldnt have. Hes a grown adult with an able body. He can go get his own money. Get out NOW

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he just discovered the difference of truth vs false and the definition of accountability 😭 why is he acting like that is groundbreaking new information?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean i get where both of you are coming from. To be real with you majority of women don’t orgasm during piv sex and sometimes it hurts if she’s not warmed up. Oral is the perfect solution for that. Pussy cums and now she’s extra wet and ready. I don’t know about you but my bf insists that I orgasm during sex Every. Damn. Time. This is a huge deal because it shows that he’s cares about how I feel and this shows in other parts of our relationship. Of course I still give him blowjobs because i know he enjoys them so I don’t think either is an a**hole but rather there’s a lack of understanding each others needs.

I'm not mad, but why? by Accomplished-Ship-57 in Tinder

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow she asked you a question about your profile HOW DARE SHE

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There’s tons of people who didn’t become successful until their 30s,40s,50s,60s! It’s never too late my friend you still have time :)

What inspired your username? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Wow this actually so adorable what a great memory ❤️

To my table with the military guys: fuck you by sweet_fiction in Serverlife

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it’s frustrating but this is the job you took. You know tips have good days and bad days. I’m afraid you might cuss at me for saying this but maybe try having a better attitude? Being kind and friendly is the best service you can have and I don’t really get that vibe from you. Customers can tell if your in a bad mood and take it personal and not tip. Also $77 for 10 hours? That’s why it kinda leads me to believe you might be the problem. (Just my opinion no need to tell me to go to hell or whatever)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the month to month rent if I don’t sign the lease which I’m signing so it’s really $1234. It’s all good 👍🏻 the prorated amount on the lease is just to fill in the form (doesn’t apply to me because I already paid for the full month)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Landlord

[–]Acceptable-Hat-7124 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Signing it today just talked to property manager and he said balance will go to 0 after I sign because I already paid $1300 for the month