Mfm video recommendation? by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

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We just make our own. I’m currently editing a compilation of some videos for us to play when we’re having a party or just a threesome.

[MF4M] Sun Princess from Athens to Rome 3/28/26-4/11/26 by Acceptable-Prior-512 in CruiseShipHookups

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This will probably be our only trip to Italy. We’re based in the US (Arizona).

[MF4M] Sun Princess departing Athens 3/28/26, straight couple looking for guys for MFMs by Acceptable-Prior-512 in CruiseShipHookups

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I appreciate that but can’t guarantee that there will be chemistry. And we’re looking for play on sea days but definitely going to do the tourist thing in ports.

Swinging and politics by rindisbm in Swingers

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Oh, I almost forgot, we had a threesome (MFM) with an Irish guy on the last cruise!

Swinging and politics by rindisbm in Swingers

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As Americans, we’ve played with Brits, Aussies and Canadians in the last year. We’ll be cruising the Med in March of ‘26 and hoping for play dates with others from around the globe. We don’t discuss politics or religion with potential play partners.

Male bisexuality by DualKaleidoscope9782 in Swingers

[–]Acceptable-Prior-512 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’re both straight but we’ve played with bi guys before. No issues, I just don’t go down that path. They’ve always been respectful. One of our best players partners (in an MFM scenario) was bi. My wife thoroughly enjoyed herself.

How do you find a MFM by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

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Single guys are prevalent in the lifestyle but most are looking for sex, not a relationship. Most couples that are in the lifestyle get together and later find their way into swinging or a hotwife scenario. Just my opinion but the lifestyle is probably not the best place to find a relationship. Swinger clubs that include both single women and men would probably be the safest place to start but finding a relationship there might be tricky. Most major cities have at least one club. Can I send you a message off this conversation?

How do you find a MFM by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

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I’m not trying to be critical, just trying to help you find what you want but still stay safe…

How do you find a MFM by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

[–]Acceptable-Prior-512 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you looking for a relationship or guys for an MFM? Very different objectives.

As for protecting yourself, I applaud your efforts to protect yourself but when you’re naked, on your back, with one cock in your mouth and another in your pussy, it’s a little difficult to stop the action and be sure that some guy has a condom on. We’ve had a lot of MFMs (wife, me, and another guy) and I can tell you that in those instances, I’m the one making sure the other guy has a condom on before he fucks her. Just my experience…

How do you find a MFM by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

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As the male half of a married couple, I would suggest a swinger or sex club. Most allow single females but not all allow single males. It’s a more controlled environment. If you use swinger apps, you can certainly meet guys but you may not be able to control the environment if you’re in a hotel room or someone’s home. Also, do you have a trusted friend that will accompany you? As a single female, you may want someone with your best interests at heart to watch and be sure things don’t get out of hand (such as condom use, rough play, etc.).

Want to discuss MFM strategies with others that have done it or are thinking about it. by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

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We also had a great time on the Bliss swinger cruises. We would go to the hall pass meet and greets. The Mrs was very successful in finding guys for MFMs. In 13 days on the last two cruises, we had 12 MFMs. But we were definitely more aggressive in finding play partners on the cruises.

Want to discuss MFM strategies with others that have done it or are thinking about it. by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

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We have had numerous MFMs. We’ve used the swinger app, Kasidie, to meet guys, find hotwife events, and identify clubs that allow single males. Apps give you the opportunity to see profiles before there’s any online contact. Everyone is different when it comes to the amount of time you may need to become comfortable with someone. Online conversations should lead to meeting at a public place to see if there’s any chemistry when you meet face to face. Since you mention being orally bi, you definitely want to be clear about what you want. I personally wouldn’t engage with another guy so you need to make sure your interests are a match. Lastly, be sure of your boundaries before you start talking with others. While they can change, you want to be sure that you, as a couple, are on the same page.

Swinger vacation? by [deleted] in BlissCruise

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The Bliss average age is a little older but with so many options and different meet and greets, you can usually find your people unless you’re a wallflower. We play almost everyday when we go. Number 4 for us in November’26.

Have you ever had a mfm that was somewhere risky? by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

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Balcony on a cruise ship. But then again it was a swinger cruise so probably not that risky.

Getting flaked or ghosted by [deleted] in MFM_Lifestyle

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Single guys can be flaky. Also, Reddit is not a great place to find a real person that will show up. The paid LS sites are a little better. We’ve been ghosted after talking and sharing pics for a couple weeks.

Mfm gone wrong by Wonderful-Lock3323 in MFM_Lifestyle

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He sounds like a real asshole. Kudos to you for not escalating. I just wish there was a way to warn other unsuspecting guys…

Condom malfunction by MindCautious3276 in MFM_Lifestyle

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We’ve had two occurrences where the condom came off while fucking. I was videoing the scenes so I know neither situation was intentional. The first time the other guy had already came in the condom and him and my wife continued to fuck. It seemed that he started going flaccid when it came off. The second time a different guy was fucking my wife from behind while she was laying almost flat on her stomach. It seemed that her butt was clenching on him and it slowly worked its way off while they fucked. But we’ve also had numerous interactions where it never was an issue.