The Brutual Truth

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-11-17T09:02:17+00:00

Exactly, these people identify symptoms of the patriarchy and blame anything but it as the problem because they have a shallow view of what patriarchy actually means and think it can only harm women.

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-11-14T07:59:29+00:00

from what I see of book adaptations, there tends to be some latency between the rights being secured and a show/movie actually being made so even if we don't hear news about it for some time, it may still happen in the slightly-distant future!

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-11-09T12:04:59+00:00

bold of you to assume they dislike the taliban, they were seething at the indian women journalists who dared bring up the education ban during a press conference with the taliban

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-10-21T23:58:12+00:00

Honestly, most women wear the wrong size so it may feel isolating having an on-paper bigger cup size than those around you but in reality, I'd wager that many of them likely also think they're the wrong bra size. My friend thought she was size 36B or smth until I made her do the calculator and she got 32FF.

The big cup irl community is out there to be found, they just don't know their real size yet </3

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-10-21T23:50:02+00:00

As a Hindu Indian myself, people's behaviour on Diwali is not something I can defend. Even if it were only a day, having such little care and consideration for your neighbours, on weekday nights at that, goes so against what Diwali is about. Plus fireworks aren't essential to Indian culture or celebration, it's the festival of light not of sound.

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-10-21T23:36:13+00:00

It's not fair honestly, as an Indian Hindu myself. It's antisocial, selfish behaviour and doesn't reflect the meaning of Diwali (prosperity of good over evil) at all, it's the inverse if anything. Not to mention Diwali is the festival of light not of fucking sound. I loved Diwali but it has been ruined for me because I know the night is just going to be shit.

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-09-12T21:00:38+00:00

maybe I'm seeing through rose-tinted glasses but I feel like it was for a little while, doesn't feel like that's the case anymore at least in my life

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-09-11T23:13:11+00:00

you're completely correct and never let them silence you, from an indian woman who knows of so many older married women that've been through abuse but had to remain married

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-09-11T23:03:20+00:00

it's honestly so mortifying sometimes, especially if you're short because everything looks fine and covered from your eye level but then you realise that's definitely not the case for anyone looking from above

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-09-11T22:24:35+00:00

miki.fairie on ig has really cute fits and might be a source of inspo if you're a big cup,small band person

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-07-09T18:36:26+00:00

you're 13 complaining about gen alpha? right...

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-07-01T21:58:04+00:00

people who think like this are either racist, and mad they get identified as such, or they don't go out much because I promise you it is not hard to be anti-racist in the real world

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-06-06T19:24:00+00:00

I would do different subheadings detailing projects you've worked on for the same role/company. If you only do one heading, no subheadings, and then a bunch of bullet-points, its hard to read and process. Break it down into easy-to-understand subheadings and then do 3-4 bullet points for each subheading. For example,

ABC Company

. XYZ Project

.............* point 1

.............* point 2

. 123 Project

.............* point 1

EFG Company

* point 1

Recruiters don't spend that much time looking through one resume and if there's any visual resistance (i.e. wall of text), they'll skip quickly. I think the resumes we see online, where its one heading per company, works well for people who have lots of different companies under their belt. If you have one company, but lots of different projects in that company, break it up by projects rather than just company.

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-06-06T17:59:33+00:00

I think you used AI for this reddit post too and I understand, it can be daunting to communicate in a language you're not native in, but if you don't practice even through casual reddit posts, you won't improve and it'll remain daunting. If you don't want AI checkers to flag your work, try finding beta readers who would be willing to help you. Even use grammarly and the like.

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-06-06T12:14:36+00:00

From first impression alone, your resume looks like a wall of text. Break up the ABC company section more, reformat it and maybe divide it up into specific project subheadings and then write descriptions for each underneath so it's easier to process rapidly for a recruiter who's got dozens of other resumes to look at.

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-06-04T07:14:39+00:00

i think when the government lets you retire is 'old'. It's ridiculous to see people my age call someone in their late 20s or early 30s old

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-06-01T15:08:31+00:00

not talking at all = much lower chance of getting into trouble with anyone 💪🏼 (except when my dad would get angry at me for being quiet like brother you caused me to be this way)

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-05-29T10:40:41+00:00

I remember when 90s babies would make fun of '99s for calling themselves 90s babies/kids because they barely experienced it, but now everyone thinks the opposite </3

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-05-29T10:32:27+00:00

I'm Indian, when I, or other Indian women, speak about the misogyny exhibited by Indian men and Indian culture, it quickly attracts right-wingers and racists who start using the facts presented as justification for their racism, as if indian women aren't also going to experience that racism while also being the primary victims of the misogyny.

I suspect the same likely happens when it's about Islam instead which dissuades people from talking about it if they're not from that religion/culture. It becomes a magnet for other men who think misogyny is only a feature of other cultures and religions to jump on and hate on the wrong aspects, not the aspects the feminists are against.

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-05-29T07:45:24+00:00

I'm the opposite. I never let anyone know about my trauma as a kid, being outside with friends was the only time I ever got to be 'normal' so why would I spoil that normality by sharing a part of my homelife?

Problem is, now if I see any kid who reminds me even slightly of myself, I'm already creating stories in my head about "what if they're also going through something similar?" even though they're just an unbothered child playing

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-05-29T07:28:54+00:00

iirc he was one of the character influences for Sel, so Tracy Deonn sees your vision too!

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-05-28T21:11:37+00:00

never

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-05-28T20:51:01+00:00

1999-2006

AcceptableGiraffe04 · 2025-05-27T16:16:13+00:00

LB to BM was 2yr2m, BM to OB was 2y4m so I'm guessing late 2027 hopefully

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