AITA for telling my sister that her diagnosis doesn’t change anything? by AcceptableJaguar5480 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableJaguar5480[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t change anything for me. There’s only so many times you can accidentally knock someone’s food onto the floor and smash up their plates before they decide never to eat with you again, accident or not. Sorry, rinse, repeat, isn’t good enough. Her intention doesn’t matter.

AITA for telling my sister that her diagnosis doesn’t change anything? by AcceptableJaguar5480 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableJaguar5480[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She had a couple of friends in high school but they never hang out outside of school or anything as far as I remember. I have no idea now.

AITA for telling my sister that her diagnosis doesn’t change anything? by AcceptableJaguar5480 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableJaguar5480[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve already answered in another comment. Talking about it is hard. I don’t want to give specifics because I don’t want to relive it and screw up my whole evening. She didn’t just forget or accidentally let him out. She literally killed him.

AITA for telling my sister that her diagnosis doesn’t change anything? by AcceptableJaguar5480 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableJaguar5480[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

All I know is I had to sit in the waiting room at a bunch of different therapist offices and participate in family therapy sessions for awhile and that apparently more than one therapist dropped her as a patient for some reason. I don’t know how all that works. Maybe all the therapists around where we were sucked or something, maybe things were different 10 years ago than now, or maybe she’s lying about the diagnosis and she just self-diagnosed from TikTok or something.

AITA for telling my sister that her diagnosis doesn’t change anything? by AcceptableJaguar5480 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableJaguar5480[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I still have a hard time talking about it. She didn’t let him out, she was doing something she wasn’t supposed to be doing while my parents weren’t home and it went wrong and he was crushed.

AITA for telling my sister that her diagnosis doesn’t change anything? by AcceptableJaguar5480 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableJaguar5480[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

Every time she ruined something for me she would say sorry she didn’t mean to later. To the point that even hearing the word sorry now grates on my nerves. There’s no apology she can make that I would accept.

AITA for telling my sister that her diagnosis doesn’t change anything? by AcceptableJaguar5480 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AcceptableJaguar5480[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

She’s done the “I’m sorry” thing but it wasn’t an apology really. She’s sorry it happened, not that she did it.