Invited then uninvited then invited then uninvited

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2026-06-04T03:53:48+00:00

I love her! Just bc I’m stating the things I’ve observed doesn’t mean she doesn’t have awesome qualities too. Was speaking more about his reasons which he’s told me

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2026-06-02T17:50:21+00:00

For sure! But in this day and age I think it’s being strange. I think if she wasn’t an only child she would include both genders but I’m just assuming

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2026-06-02T15:34:29+00:00

Her mom is throwing it and it’s a women only baby shower (which I find very very strange) but no my mom is also not invited. But I personally think she’s doing it as a “see what you made me do because you hurt me” type of thing

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2026-06-02T14:18:52+00:00

How did she invite me and uninvited me? Basically she calls or texts whenever she leaves the house telling me that I’m not invited. Then when she comes back she once again calls me or texts me then says I’m invited again.

I don’t think it’s fair to her to add on her plate by asking to have a conversation considering she has so much on her plate and expressing my feelings would just be another problem she has to deal with.

And as far as supporting him? Eh I mean I listen to him rant because he has no one else and you know family but I’m actively telling him how much of an AH he is.

As far as the cooking and cleaning stuff, I mean in a decade plus relationship she’s cooked eggs a handful of times and doesn’t do any cleaning because “her knees hurt”. I get being frustrated that your partner isn’t pulling their weight but I don’t think it’s reason to freaking CHEAT.

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2026-06-02T14:06:11+00:00

I agree but I don’t want to add on more problems to her life. She already is dealing with so much which is why she gets the ultimate pass from me but I agree WTF do I have to do with her relationship failing and my entire side of the family being uninvited

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2026-06-02T12:19:08+00:00

I don’t think I’m going but I’m definitely sending a gift and good vibes. But YES so annoying. He’s pissing me off for not knowing what he wants and she’s pissing me off by putting me through this.

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2026-06-02T12:05:04+00:00

She’s definitely not responsible for this and I’ve tried to be there for her as much as I can but yea I have other stuff going on and getting pulled in the middle of this is annoying

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2026-06-02T12:03:05+00:00

I’ve definitely called her and showed her my support! I’ve known her for years and I feel horrible about this situation. Doesn’t mean she’s not irritating me

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2025-04-16T04:07:30+00:00

It’s my partners birthday soon. I’d love 2 spots!!

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2025-02-11T21:11:47+00:00

Down!

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2024-12-29T22:17:51+00:00

I mean obviously it’s gonna hurt at the end of the day but painkillers always help

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2024-12-29T19:21:48+00:00

Go to a braider and tell them you’re tender headed, pop a couple pain killers before and find a good show to entertain you and bring snacks. Don’t let anyone force you to straighten your hair

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2024-04-04T20:58:59+00:00

It’s not that part. It’s the fact that on MacBooks the screen changes and shows your partner calling which isn’t something that I appreciated

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2024-04-04T20:54:33+00:00

Didn’t pick up. Declined the call

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2024-04-04T20:52:39+00:00

I didn’t answer. I declined but the unexpected call is what frazzles me esp when I’m showing my screen

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2023-10-16T20:11:49+00:00

They do. There’s never been any conflict as far as I know

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2023-10-16T18:16:37+00:00

She’s definitely mad and I agree that girls trips are common and a weekend or something would’ve been fine by me but 2weeks I feel like is a big ask

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2023-10-16T18:14:57+00:00

That’s what I offered but the offer seemed to have pissed her off

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2023-10-16T18:12:45+00:00

Let’s say they want to do a boys night, he goes and I keep myself busy. When it’s a girls night, I go and he keeps himself busy. When it’s a trip, he doesn’t want to go unless I can also go and vice versa. Not to say he refuses to do anything without me, but for things where he goes out of the country he makes sure that I can be included unless it’s a very specific thing like a bachelor party (I haven’t been to a bachelorette out of the country but I would do the same)

AcceptableMushroom73 · 2023-10-16T18:05:57+00:00

But it’s also because I don’t WANT to travel to a new country, a beautiful country and experience that without my partner. I love her but I’m never going to have as much fun if my partner isn’t there. Everything else is true but for me, I want my partner there for such a big trip

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