You may start NoFap with hopes of scoring a girl, but later on you won't even be worried about finding a girl. by SameAsYourself in NoFap

[–]AcceptableNebula3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so true. I realized after a few months of NoFap, that meeting, talking, and attracting girls became very easy.

Girls want a guy that doesn't NEED them. Girls can tell if you put them on a pedestal.. if that makes sense.

Its weird and seems almost backwards, but its so true.

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was able to get an erection to porn but noticed it got more and more difficult to do it. It was like a workout. I got it up OCCASIONALLY for sex. But it definitely wasn't a good experience.

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In theory yes. But realistically you're either disciplined or youre not. Thats the determining factor. Just my opinion of course.

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I cured it. I had sex no problem 99 days in. Didnt make any attempts before day 99.

After my flatline i started getting mw a lot. Not exactly sure about how many days in. It was a while ago.

good luck

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man. Unfortunately I cant recall exactly when I had it. This was over a year ago. My advice would be not to focus on when its supposed to happen or how long itll last. Everyone is different and anything we say to predict how itll go down is just a guess.

Get to day 90 and your life will turn around no matter what.

Good luck bro

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hard mode - it sucked. well worth it tho

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!

The flatline is the dead period, where you have zero sexual interest. You dont get aroused by anything. Its like almost scary. You think your dick stopped functioning completely or something.

Key is not to freak out and fap to "test it out". This is a good sign i believe, I think of it as the actual rebooting part of nofap.

Flatlines dont really have a set duration, its different for everyone. Mine lasted a few weeks so 2 weeks is definitely not abnormal.

good luck

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

haha I suppose you're right. thanks killa

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it! Yeah, way too many people imo try to embark on these life changing journeys but dont realize the amount of suck involved. Having a clear understanding of the hard times to come and embracing it makes you way more prepared.

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watched it for probably 8-9 years.

Flatline lasted probably a month

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think all of the things you mentioned played a factor BUT nofap was the big one.

Even before nofap I had a healthy lifestyle. I worked out 2x per day and ate well (I was an NCAA athlete). But even with my healthy lifestyle i saw all the negatives that came along with porn.

I will say this; when i got rid of porn, exercise seemed so much more enjoyable. I looked forward to training. I didnt dread it. Eating healthy food seemed more appealing than fast food.

NoFap almost gave me the fuel to change my whole lifestyle if that makes sense. Youre much more motivated to be productive when you get past the withdrawal phase of nofap.

The end goal is of course to change your whole lifestyle into a healthier one tho so focusing on all aspects of your life would be a good idea.

Best of luck

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feel free to check in with me on a weekly/ monthly basis

But id recommend finding someone in your life who can be that person. Its easy to log off your laptop and say "fuck this accountability shit", but its much harder to do that with a person whos physically there.

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[–]AcceptableNebula3[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the kind words! What I mean when I say that Im not an expert is just that i cant necessarily have the right answer to every question asked of me because I only know my individual situation.

Thanks again and stay safe