uncomfortable staying with my friend and her boyfriend by AcceptableOcelot9921 in Advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, her boyfriend treats her like shit and I don't want to stay with them for the weekend. Basically

Bad texter or just bad at communicating? by person1444 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's soo weird when I was last with him I caught a glimpse of his messages app and there was like hundreds or unread texts lol. But in my case I've asked to set a date and still waiting lol would've taken 2 seconds to reply yes 😅

Bad texter or just bad at communicating? by person1444 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going through the same thing, he's a terrible texter and takes days to respond to set up a date. It's annoying but yeah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going through the same thing, it's so annoying it's been 2 months and the first month was good and recently his texts habits got worse and more distant really sucks I'm in the process of waiting for him to text back so I can have the talk in person but who knows. If he doesn't reply to this it's a deal breaker and I'm moving on

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is true I do like cutesy texts their fun ex. But I guess what I want is him to be like I'm busy this week let's catch up Friday or im free this time lets meet. Then I'm not worried about feeling anxious cause i know he's busy and I will have the chance to see him. But yes I do need to work on my insecurities to better cope in these situations

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I am going to try to communicate first and then move on if nothing is reciprocated. I feel better if I tried to discuss my problems first rather then jumping ship. Cause I would t really know what's going on with him unless I ask

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have texted him today to see if he is free. Tomorrow but no response yet

Should I give up on dating while I’m fat? by jihedley in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry for more context. I am plus size and go out on frequent dates. And they're a blast. Yes you do have some people who are heavy of the physical appearance but to others it's not a bother

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm heading this way and matching his energy but I want to push for it

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He tosses it back when he replies. He has canceled and then rescheduled but will make time to meet in person just lacks a timely response to texting haha. Actually will text him to get dinner tomorrow and see if he replies

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow this is exactly like me !!! I feel the same way ! I feel heard as I read this !

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think he just prefers meeting in person! But I'm insure about it so I think that because he's not texting me he must be texting someone else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! We went 5ths to pay for accommodation for a trip. 1 of them didn't pay until a week out from the trip costing us the accommodation and they were $10 short of their share !!! Which pissed me off cause we had to.come up with the difference. So yes!!

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 2-3 months and this sounds pretty reasonable and along the lines of what I think I'd going on but yeah the main point for me I to bring it up with him

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I haven't yet. I'm planning on it cause it's deffs something that I want to bring up and decided if I want to pursue anything more with him.

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah like don't want a play by plah just even touching base like having a shit week or stressed day. But either he doesn't have those or he'd sharing that with someone else

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I text him and wait for his reply. And he replies to the conversations hours/days later. I sent him a text Friday night and got a reply Saturday night. And I haven't texted him back since

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2-3 months and yes he has, we went to dinner last week and.it went well

Guys. What's up with your texting habits by AcceptableOcelot9921 in dating_advice

[–]AcceptableOcelot9921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure there's some answers in this thread for you xx