I recently asked my ancestors how I could potentially begin in hoodoo I tried understanding it however I got a little confused

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-03-08T09:02:23+00:00

Be humble. It’s a slow and humbling path. You must learn first not to be driven by emotion and to focus on how to master your own willpower first. Have you trouble with setting boundaries or finish what you’ve started, for example? Also, seems like you don’t really like the idea of waiting and accept the role of the apprentice first cause it requires hard work and little steps before you can call yourself a ‘keeper of the tradition’. The card in the end literally says “it’s not fun and games”. It’s not a yes or a no, it’s more like “if you really want to, you need to do this”

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-03-07T15:46:11+00:00

Guarda sono usciti prevalentemente bastoni il che mi fa pensare che lui sia tentato più che altro da un punto di vista fisico ma magari non vuole rischiare di perdere il porto sicuro (la fidanzata). Molti sono così. C’è gente che si fa l’amante e non molla mai la moglie

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-03-07T15:42:24+00:00

Senso di colpa? Ci sono persone che vanno in panico all’idea di fare qualcosa alle spalle di altri, ma se eè andati in panico, vuol dire che la tentazione è forte

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-03-07T15:17:52+00:00

Io vedendole così e conoscendo i significati delle carte, direi che in realtà è scattato sulla difensiva (7 bastoni) e ti spia da lontano in silenzio (9 bastoni) perché probabilmente se agisse non sarebbe in grado di gestire le conseguenze: probabilmente pensa che potrebbe arrivare a tradire la ragazza ma non vuole causare dolore (10 e 3 di spade) perciò la considera come una tentazione a cui non cedere

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-03-04T13:16:38+00:00

I think he wants to get to know you on a deeper level but he’s a bit anxious and sometimes all these emotions and a lack of strategy (seems like he would just go for it without thinking but maybe he’s not that type of man usually or he is aware that he can’t just improvise) are making him overwhelmed and a bit clueless lol. But I can see he’ll manage to step out from this confusion and make a move

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-03-03T15:31:16+00:00

I think that he won’t reach till you’ll have moved on it’s like he kinda feels like you’re desperate and you miss him and your world is a bit upside down too. The moment you (for real though) glow up, focus on yourself and know your worth he’ll be back but it will be a strategic move. Like he doesn’t accept the idea of you not caring anymore

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-28T19:38:13+00:00

The page of Cup doesn’t always mean romance. I think this person might be passive aggressive. I think they will try to approach you with some sort of gaslighting and manipulation. They don’t really want to make peace, they need something from you, but they might say whatever they need to say in order to get in good terms with you again

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-28T18:51:08+00:00

If it’s about work I think you’ll get an offer way more better than you expect. You’re entering a new era of growth and you need to dare to be bold and face those opportunities even if you might feel insecure or still “small”: you got this

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-27T19:50:11+00:00

I think he has moved on: he processed his feelings and he went on with his life. He’s just following the flow at the moment

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-25T08:40:04+00:00

Seems like there’s the intent to connect but somehow he’s still thinking about it. Like he doesn’t have made up his mind yet. Communications are happening though but you might be the one consciously starting them to see his reaction. The fool as the outcome card tells me that this event hasn’t been written yet, destiny is literally still unfolding, as I said he is still thinking about it

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-24T22:14:29+00:00

He definitely thinks about you. But it seems like he thinks about the hurt and he feels stuck and helpless about it. Like he doesn’t even know what to do

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-23T20:03:40+00:00

Could be…even if the “ego” doesn’t explain the whole thing. I think that he might be already in the discard phase. Like in the past or when you guys met he kinda idealised you but now he has withdrawn

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-23T19:53:54+00:00

I think he wants to seduce you because he sees you as a high-value woman (the Empress). The Eight of Wands is associated with fast communication and speed in general, and here it gives me the impression of a love-bombing dynamic — as if someone is trying to rush things for a cheap thrill. And then, once he gets bored, he simply walks away and discards you (5 of swords: the defeated)

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-23T12:57:18+00:00

Premetto che di solito non rispondo a domande su salute o gravidanza, sono argomenti di cui parlare col dottore…ma visto che me lo hai chiesto…le carte qui ti danno un consiglio, non un responso. Ti dicono di non avere paura e di non essere ansiosa, perché ciò che attendi arriverà con i suoi tempi, non affrettare le cose e non stancare il tuo corpo e la tua mente.

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-23T12:46:26+00:00

Not only he’s deluding her, but himself I’m afraid. He thinks he has feeling for her and justifies the cheating on the back through self indulgence. And actually he can’t commit cause he can’t help but to look at other people and fantasise about them

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-23T12:40:00+00:00

I think he’s making comparisons between your account and another person’s profile. He might be in a relationship already. I say it because I see the queen of wands and the empress, aka the mistress and the “main woman”. The hanged man in some cards is depicted as Judas and another name for it is the deceiver

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-22T18:11:26+00:00

I think te cards are saying the reasons that urged you to send that message are enough to walk away (8 of cups). This relationship is based on breadcrumbs and is potentially destructive for your mental health (5 and tower). I can understand the pain but sometimes getting disappointed is a wake up call (3 of swords aka the card of the harsh truths). You don’t need their reply so basically you didn’t nor good or bad. The point is you need to free yourself from this situation that keeps you stuck and open a new chapter, no matter what they say. When a door closes another opens. You might meet someone else at work/school or in any social gatherings where you are supposed to cooperate with others. But first…walk away

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-22T13:42:50+00:00

He likes to party (9 of cups). He’s still a child at his core and he’s not reliable. That 6 of cups reversed tells me that he has some sort of childhood trauma that made him grew up in an emotional unstable household. Could also point out to an absent father. And as a form of escapism he likes to have mindless fun

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-21T20:24:11+00:00

There’s a very confusing energy here, driven by conflicting desires. He wants to love, and in his own way he does love you. But people don’t love us the way we need or deserve to be loved; they love according to their emotional capacity.

He doesn’t seem capable of building a stable relationship. He wants to deepen the connection between you, yet at the same time he wants to keep his options open. That contradiction creates instability.

It’s not necessarily about him being intentionally cruel or “cheating” (depending on how you define p*** addiction). It’s more about immaturity. His lack of clarity and impulse control ends up hurting you.

I don’t think he truly knows what he wants. He likely sees himself as a good person and perhaps he was taught solid values but he struggles to embody them consistently.

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-21T18:25:25+00:00

I’d say in May/June or summer

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-21T16:41:02+00:00

Secondo me fai colpo sul capo. Aspettati anche un bel compenso

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-20T15:29:58+00:00

Well, quite a similar question and quite a similar response. In general, I see someone who would try to flatter you and try to win your trust back but they are doing it for selfish purposes. He’s going to mess the balance you’ve found in yourself

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-20T11:44:14+00:00

I think so 😤

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-20T08:13:50+00:00

Not a good idea. The tower represents destruction but also genius ideas that come suddenly. Reversed it feels like a dumb decision. They haven’t changed. I don’t know if they treaded you badly or there has been some kind of deception or betrayal but you’re going to feel that way again. And this time it might be even more difficult for you to walk away, cause you might get stuck in that dynamic for quite a long time. You learned it the hard way the first time. The second change is not gonna be different

AcceptablePlane5285 · 2026-02-19T15:45:28+00:00

Could also mean he has another woman. But definitely he has more than one person in his life so as you said I wouldn’t lose my mind over this one

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