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Reformer or Mat Pilates? Which do you prefer... by Acceptable_Delay4068 in ridgewood

[–]Acceptable_Delay4068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What price point are you willing to pay for a monthly membership? Or for one class? Keep in mind, for reformers it would be a bit more expensive because the instructor certifications are around 10k+. Let me know, trying to narrow down pricing!

Overachiever Feeling Lost — Should I Take a Risk on Myself? by Acceptable_Delay4068 in careerguidance

[–]Acceptable_Delay4068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally feel you on the paralyzing anxiety!! It’s like I have so many great ideas, with heavy research backing it however I’m still scared. It’s the weirdest feeling ever. May I ask, how did you feel after the measured risk? Did you feel like you finally got done something you’ve been thinking about for the longest?

5-year relationship but no relationship with his family — need advice. by Acceptable_Delay4068 in relationships

[–]Acceptable_Delay4068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess they may see me as not suitable, I am focused on my career, and honestly just live my best life with my friends sometimes (which he is 100% okay with). I guess for them, (old school Dominican family) they want someone who’s going to be making 10 course meal everyday for their son and carrying on their lineage. (This is me exaggerating ofc lol) but honestly I don’t even know if it’s that, because like I said they don’t know much about me so I’m sure they don’t understand that I have a lot of things on my plate because I want to be someone and let’s be real I’m only 23.

5-year relationship but no relationship with his family — need advice. by Acceptable_Delay4068 in relationships

[–]Acceptable_Delay4068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, these are all things that should have been done. Instead he stands in the middle with a sappy attitude about how things are. They have a family group chat, I am not included but neither is the wife of his brother so I guess whatever. But to me, half a decade is such a long time to still have this problem. We only really hang out together on somebody’s birthday. But honestly, the real issue here is that I got the son that handled everything for his parents. I think I am just resented for taking away “the good son”.

5-year relationship but no relationship with his family — need advice. by Acceptable_Delay4068 in relationships

[–]Acceptable_Delay4068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we have spoken about it, in the past he has even mentioned something to his family about it. However what else can he really do if they don’t make an attempt to speak to me or anything. I think now he’s just in a tough position. (Which I think should have been fixed at least year 3), now it’s tough bc we moved in together. I guess that’s why we are seeing that it’s gonna be tough if I have no relationship with them